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[–]Romantic_Adventurer 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are living a wonderful life and having fun, ask her to tag along!
'Hey, I am going down to the XYZ park to clear my head this week, it would be nice if you come along! '
Remember: if she doesn't want to, just open new sets, meet new people. We have to keep in mind that we have a 99% chance of failing and if we don't take the risk, we will never meet that 1% that are willing to make our life amazing!
Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
[–]NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Walk up to her, "Anyway, you were saying?"
[–]bornin1729 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is great. Suits my style too 😂
[–]tlthang 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hi, how have you been?
[–]putcoolusernamehere 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just say hi to her one day in the library and see where things go
[–]megainculu 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you're already in a relationship why do you want to approach X at all? Just keep a friendly smile and nod that's it.
[–]bornin1729 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sorry forgot to mention I’m not in a relationship anymore. We broke up a few months back.
[–]megainculu 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just approach her like nothing ever happened. Tell her, "let's catch up".
When you were dating someone else and she was bothered by it, that doesn't matter bcoz it's your choice who you want to date. Happy hunting 😉
[–]bornin1729 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You’re right. I’m definitely overthinking a pretty simple situation
[–]FranciscotheBull 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think if you are dating around, you should at least keep in contact with the other person so that you can explore your options as well as being fair for her and you that you are clear with what and her are expecting put of the interactions. By all means, of you are dating, having fun, etc. have fun. If you are looking for a relationship that has meaning, you would have to approach things more seriously. Broaden your spectrum and keep contact with people who you are interested in. Don't burn bridges.
Just go up to that woman, apologize if you hurt her feelings in terms of not contacting her, and try again. You may not need to apologize, but she may have viewed things differently so keep that in mind. For me, I always communicate and like it when a person can do the same thing so that everyone is on the same page.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Hi... remember me. What's been going on. I was dumb. I didn't mean to play with your feelings or come off like a jerk. I was really having a lot of fun with you, but I didn't have the experience with dating to really be upfront with you when I should. "
Then I would probably let her vent some or forgive me. But eventually express interest in hanging out or dating again.
[–]Leading_Research 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Say hi and just be normal.
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