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[–]AngeloMacon 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Not a bad way to go. If you have any luck, you'll get the confidence to go sooner and with less booze in you, hah.
[–]alexalmighty100 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That’s the dream but honestly it’s like single women don’t walk in until im about to leave so I just make sure my ride takes extra long now
[–]AngeloMacon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Can't you just arrive later?
[–]alexalmighty100 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s a thursday afternoon so I was just getting some food and socializing in a new scene then going home. I go out at bars at 9,10, or 11 pm on Fridays or Saturdays when I don’t have to work early the next day
[–]AngeloMacon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I guess you need the liquid courage still? Otherwise, just go later, drink less and stay later. Maybe you get less than ideal sleep but you're not sauced at least? Or try to find another spot if you're in a city that has more of a happy hour crowd.
[–]alexalmighty100 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like sampling new whiskeys when im out alone during the day or evening so it seems like I need the alc to approach(it does help admittedly), but I do plenty of approaches when im stone cold sober in my own area or nyc if I get a chance
[–]AngeloMacon 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cool, keep doing what you're doing then. You're a young guy and there's a reason we call it social lubricant. If you're 40 and twice divorced and still can't just talk to a girl halfway through your first bourbon who is right next to you... then eh... stop being a pussy.
[–]Neo-Rio 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So in short, your strategy is get drunk, and then get lucky.
That sounds more like the hope strategy.
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. And down $30-50 every night.
[–]alexalmighty100 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope
[–]Contango6969 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Try going out with no phone, no exit strategy, just the shirt on your back and some balls. You’ll get a girl to take you to your place at worst, her place at best.
Trust me, when I’m not grabbing a bite to eat at the bar and going home, I try my best to approach women at the bar. This is just something I thought I’d share with guys that have a hard time thinking of something to say and the time limit will encourage them escalate within a few minutes
[–]IsHeSerious88541 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As a woman, I have a hard time believing I’m just gonna give a strange guy a ride home like that. He can use my phone to find himself a ride if he’s nice….
[–]Contango6969 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can think of at least 8 times this has happened for me it’s got to be even more than that. I don’t walk up to random people and ask for a ride home. This is after spending many hours at bars connecting with people
[–]dick_head4life 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
bruh 😂😂
[–]Contango6969 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When Cortez landed in America he and his men burned their boats. Because there could be no retreating. Leaving yourself no options but success is a good way to see what you’re capable of
[–]dick_head4life1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I had to Google this to verify lol That’s crazy
[–]Ok_Plankton52861 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Aye bro I feel you
[–]Both_Assumption1275 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So:
I don’t think this is a good solution. Talking to girls outside is called parking lot pimpin and has been done forever. Also at the end of the night there is usually slim pickings
[–]alexalmighty100 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Then don’t do it. As I clarified, I like trying new whiskeys and that’s my main focus along with eating at new places. This isn’t a down 5 shots then start talking thing. This is more like I’m out exploring my hobby and it gives me a chance to meet new people and get comfortable in a new environment. I even met a guy today that enjoyed our conversation so much he bought me a drink cuz he’s a fellow enthusiast so I wasn’t busy scouting at the bar. This is when I happen to be tipsy and I just say fuck it before I leave
[–]Optimisticfob 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you’re gonna get out via uber/lyft anyways then why not pre-booze before entering the bar?
Cuz I don’t want to just get drunk all the time I like to try new whiskeys
[–]Horror-Skirt7233 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
So just to be clear you cancel the Uber/Lyft if she’s interested in you?
[–]alexalmighty100 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Nah, if I’ve had 5 drinks(probably whisky over 40%) in 2 hours or less then I’m going home unless she’s down to do something that momenr
[–]Horror-Skirt7233 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
True, also do you go to bars alone or with friends?
[–]alexalmighty100 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Both. I’ve gone to bars nearby alone and gotten free drinks cuz the bartenders like me and it helps me get comfortable in the environment. Harder to pull this move off with friends but I’ll go for fun on a Friday or Saturday night with one or more other guys
[–]Horror-Skirt7233 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice this is good insight
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That seems like a good outro. I'd think more about what to do before that point.
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