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AngeloMacon · 2022-07-28T21:41:52+00:00

Do you go to the fishing sub reddit and complain about how fish just jump into your boat?

leafhog · 2022-07-28T22:58:25+00:00

Dude. You are 28. Be direct.

Ask her to lunch and talk to her about it. Tell her that you think she’s sending signals. Tell her she’s gorgeous but you just got out of a breakup and are hesitant to get involved so soon. Ask her what she is looking for.

Don’t shut down dating her. It doesn’t have to be serious. Talk to her about what she wants.

You are the more mature and older guy. Act like it instead of playing footsy.

MywarUK · 2022-07-28T21:31:45+00:00

Just fuck her

Crow729 · 2022-07-28T22:00:27+00:00

What do you want exactly? I'm looking she's looking , she's not looking i'm not looking. It's nauseating to read this. Take a effing decision.

She is very beautiful and I don't want her to get into my head.

Do YOU want your head in her?

Am I sending mixed signals to this girl?

I can see it from miles away.

Or is this her way of taking her revenge at me by showing me what I have missed?

Are you paranoid or something? (sorry...)

variable-resistor · 2022-07-28T22:14:34+00:00

You don't want her in your head, but she very clearly already is. Keep talking about how beautiful she is, and how many signals she's sending. If anything, she's already got you wrapped around your finger - maybe that's what you're really afraid of. This chick's got you hooked, and you're afraid of losing control to her, because maybe you lost control to the last chick and she walked all over you. Maybe it's not a control thing, though. Maybe she's just into you. Maybe she just wants to fuck - she's a 20 yo college chick, and you're over there playing hard to get, even though you're clearly obsessed with her. That is the mixed signal. Clean it up. Stop taking it so seriously. You're both consenting adults, decide you're gonna have fun with this girl who wants to have fun with you.

Framing, friend. Your framing is all fucked up. Fix it.

hagakurejunkie · 2022-07-29T01:38:36+00:00

Oh god, bro lose the holier than thou attitude. I was seeing a woman 20 years younger than me. (43 and 23), If she's cool with it, then you should be cool with it too.

It's completely fucking obvious you're interested in her but this silly church attitude is stopping you. THE GIRL LIKES YOU

Why on earth would that be you ask?

Because you may have been the only dude who didn't act like a total insane weirdo to her and SURPRISE, SURPRISE, women want normal, not insane men to date.

She's in college, you're in college, she's not a child and for all your needling ways, you don't sound like a creep.

If she's getting a lot of attention from other men but instead craves your attention, look at it for what it is, she values you. Ask her out and see what happens

And knock that off with "shared interests", I hate that shit. The girl I was seeing is fucking BRILLIANT in things I know utterly nothing about and I adored every conversation I had with her because I actually learned a lot.

I'm very good at a lot of other things and it was incredibly refreshing to listen to someone who I could learn from instead of always having to explain everything.

Give it a shot, who knows this woman might end up being the greatest love of your life but you'll never know if you don't try.

mariokart890 · 2022-07-28T21:49:47+00:00

What is the dilemma here? If you’re interested in her you should pursue it. If you just wanna fuck, then do that. And if you’re not interested… stop trying to make eye contact with her and truly move on.

2022-07-29T01:53:37+00:00

A few red flags:
1) You're 28 and lived together with a woman for 4 years? Fuck, wait until you're in your 40s or older to do that.
2) 20 is too young for you? FFS, not for most men I know
3) Just fuck her already. This is what college is for. Stop obsessing over BS.

Exotic_Pop_765 · 2022-07-29T01:28:54+00:00

Are her boobs as pretty as her face ??

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