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[–]A_Chicken_Dino 61 points62 points63 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Go to the closest campus to u. If thats too far away go to a mall. Go to a park. Just go some place where there’s a high density of people around your age and strike up a conversation with anyone u find interesting.
Most ppl r nice ppl. If u go up to someone in one of these places and literally just introduce urself, maybe make a nice comment about them but this is not necessarily needed, and just say ur looking to meet new ppl, 90% of ppl will react positively to that. Then just try to keep the convo going, and when u leave try to do so on a note where u have an excuse to text them or plan a hangout (assuming u got their socials).
Once u get comfortable doing that, u can begin approaching more girls instead of mainly guys, and increase the flirtation and boldness. Of course if u want u can also just approach girls from the get-go. It’s up to u.
Just dont stay home. That was my biggest problem. When I was ur age I was always complaining about how I was alone and how hard it was to meet ppl when I literally was staying at home all day. When I realized I wasnt actually making any efforts to meet new ppl but still complain about it, my whole life changed.
Just get out there and talk to ppl. It may seem like a big step, but once u begin doing it, ull see that its really not that big of a deal. Just pls dont make the same mistake I did and read this but then still stay at home. Watching yt vids on how to make friends but then still not actually dojng anything like me ur age is not what u should be doing.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice. Thanks man
[–]34BoringT_ 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the advice 16 year old me need, but doesn't deserve.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Im in the same boat as OP. Question: where would you go out? Just around the city? I do go out once in a while with friends but only if something is planned, but no if it is randomly and alone.
[–]A_Chicken_Dino 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
U go out to the places I mentioned - places where theres usually a high density of people ur age. And then just approach ppl and talk to them. If u go out with the mindset of just having a fun day/night and come in with the right energy, that will rub off on ppl and u will end up meeting a lot of ppl.
Ive been doing this for a long time and I have a pretty big social circle now, but I still like to just go out by myself and approach both girls and guys cuz when u have the right mindset, meeting new ppl is fun.
[–]MembershipPlus2082 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
18+ arcade bars? Challenge girls to a ddr match. Just make sure you have some dancing skills.
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never heard of an 18+ arcade bar. Didn’t know those existed
[–]MembershipPlus2082 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have one next to my place. They are all ages until 8pm, and from 8pm they are 21+. I've never seem them kick someone out at 8pm. they just check for your hand wrist band color when you try to buy alcohol
[–]desal 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
they're here in KC too
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A couple hours. Don’t think I could do a day trip
[–]grindforthegold 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
pay one your boys to let you pipe at their crib if all else fails
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Gotta meet them first to pipe them. I don’t even know where to go to meet girls solo
[–]grindforthegold 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
indirect daygame
[–]Throwawayadistance 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What would indirect daygame be?
[–]grindforthegold 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
look through my profile comments i talk plenty about it
[–]Pretend-Im-Funny 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
shitt what are the other options if u live w ur parents
[–]grindforthegold 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
your backseat lol with younger girls i’ve done that plenty, otherwise you can run the beach at night (works like a charm actually if she’s bout that) or a hotel. but honestly once you bang the girl like she’ll eventually know you live with your parents and she’ll be cool with coming over if she likes you
[–]Throwawayadistance 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How/where do you find girls who want to fuck on your backseat? Like how do you get that far?
i mean you make out with them a little once during your date, eventually lead them to your car, i make out with them on the back door and if they’re really into it i just open the backdoor and push them in lmao
this will only work with certain girls that are really into you and like sloppy making out with you type shit. i get some dates like this and some dates where they only give me a little kiss.
You must follow rules 1 and 2 I'd assume
[–]ActionEve 9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dumpsters, coffee shops, gym, church, book shops, Lululemon type stores
[–]fancayschmanzayyy 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look up local events and shit in your area, find one you wouldn't mind going to alone or with a wingman, and you'll meet and see plenty of attractive people who wouldn't mind meeting new people. A lot of people go to those types of events because there's such a large pool of people to interact with and you can meet some really cool people, even the vendors. I met and banged a few at the arts fest, the greek food festival, the local fish fry. You just need to be confident in your cold approach and you could meet someone at the gas station.
[–]Walrus72 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Church
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly living at home doesn't stop from meeting women, but i think you mean hooking up with them , in that case just try to get girls that have their own place and if they invite you back you're golden
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The gym, grocery stores, bars, classes, events, festivals
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can’t really go to the bar at 19🤷🏻♂️ the rest are good options though. I’ve always found it hard to hit on girls at the gym tho
[–]thatshinobiboiii 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I wouldn’t recommend hitting on a girl at the gym or in grocery stores unless a conversation happens naturally.
[–]bigmclargehuge314 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The gym. For sure
[–]FranciscotheBull 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't worry about it. Put yourself out there. Be involved on campus, workout, approach women and go from there. Crea opportunities and put yourself out there and you can find a woman anywhere.
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