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[–]Oriential-amg77 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ooooh OP Go go go go go go go give her the side eye so you can be sure it's the safe and sexual look and not the fuck off aggro monkey face lol
[–]Zestyclose-Freedom58 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Will do that next time and make sure to not make the angry monkey face lol, thanks!
[–]Oriential-amg77 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No that's my job lol
[–]eyewave 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
To be sure, put your hand on her hand and see how she reacts.
[–]No-Tomato668 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beat me to it . It is exactly what I was going to say
[–]Zestyclose-Freedom58 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Good idea, it’s just that I’m so scared of doing things like that because I really don’t want to be seen as a creep
[–]VinceBrogan8 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her: (Puts hand on his thigh/knee)
Him: (Puts his hand on top of hers)
Her: (Pulls her hand away) "Eww omg that's so creepy".
Him: "Bitch, why was your hand on my thigh in the first place ? Were you feeling around for my dick ?"
[–]eyewave 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand the feeling, I stayed a creep for a good portion of my student life.
It's all about context and self-confidence.
[–]logicallyillogical 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Bro, her hand is on your leg. It’s not being creepy at all to put you hand over hers. This is/was a golden ticket. I feel sometimes you fools need a fucking diagram with step by step instructions. Fucking go for it man!
[–]Zestyclose-Freedom58 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Alright, you are probably right and I need to learn how to read body language better, thank you!
[–]logicallyillogical 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry to yell, you got this my man.
[–]BlueButAlsoRedPilled 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she goes "ew, you're such a creep" or smth, get back at her. She touched your thigh in the first place. Call her out on it, like another comment said
[–]cobraCL 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She likes you 🤭😉 Make a move.
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[–]Zestyclose-Freedom58 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the detailed post and when you put it like this I see that it most likely was a flirty move from her, I have to work on my insecurity and social anxiety to get better at this.
[–]Revolutionary_Fan733 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This man knows whats up. Gold star post thank you Mod. People ITT are all clueless.
[–]Romantic_Adventurer 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means alcohol. If you are interested in her, ask her questions about fun times and tell her cool stories from your life. If not, just open new sets, meet more people, take care of your physical health.
Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You were probably wearing some really awesome jeans 😂 lol, if it’s a confirmed friend she just wants the validation, chicks aren’t usually comfortable making a direct move if it’s for reals, they evaluate things in terms of risk.
[–]Zestyclose-Freedom58 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah maybe it was that way, another time she kissed me on the cheek so I suppose she’s just a touchy feely person
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My recommendation, don’t allow her to do it, tell her straight up it confusing and you think she likes you romantically, then ask her straight up if she does, it’s a yes or no, if yes then great carry on, if no then don’t let her touch you, scream sexual harassment 😂
Thank you for the advice! But I still wonder why would someone touch someone in that way if it’s not for for romantic / sexual intentions? Is to like to show dominance?
No problem dude. So a lot of women simply like the attention and validation of physical touch, eye contact, playful flirty conversation etc. Yes there is a sexual sub communication behind her actions, so you are right to question why this is happening, the body has its own understanding mechanism. What you have to differentiate is if it’s genuine attraction or validation seeking (us guys do it too) One of my favourite ways to find out is to look at the upper chest area to see what direction it’s faced when you’re speaking, is it faced towards you or away from you, keep an eye out for that. Good luck bud.
Gotcha! And will keep an eye out for the chest ;)
[–]Confidenceisbetter 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t do that to someone i only see as a platonic friend. She was probably testing the waters to see how you react to being touched by her, it was flirty.
Alright, only way I reacted was by letting her have the hand there because I didn’t know what else to do.
[–]Knbnc 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means what you are 90% sure it means.
[–]distawest 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That she wants to touch higher, but she's a lady
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you think? Didn't you get the memo?
[–]Zestyclose-Freedom58 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have hard to understand things like this, what’s the memo?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The girl made a conscious effort to comfort you, or as a sexual go ahead signal (i want you to touch me too/i like you).
whip it out my guy
[–]Leo7S 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means she finds you attractive, cute and friendly and she is comfortable with you. Just react naturally, show that you like it, sweep across her hair 👍
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