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osavpoiss · 2022-07-19T14:10:53+00:00

Dude.. if that was literally your first kiss then trying to "secure" a ons in one day most probably ain't gonna happen.

VinceBrogan8 · 2022-07-19T14:56:55+00:00

Pro Tip for the future: Never make out unless you're in the bang location.

Here's what basically happened... you and her made out, I'm going to assume that she knows that you're only in Prague for a couple more days. At this point Make Out Girl already knows that your intentions are to smash, and now that it's the next morning her mental hamster has come to the realization that she will probably never see you again once you leave Prague. There's also a chance that the making out got her off, and now she doesn't need you. She knows you're leaving in a couple days, yet she's spending time with her friends. That's great for her, but as you said, she's now out of the picture. Good on you for recognizing this instead of pining over her and blowing up her phone with needy texts.

She (like most women) needed that plausible deniability that night. I think if you hadn't made out at the club, but instead pulled her from her friends (assuming she was there with friends, or at least one, and probably the judgemental mother hen one), my gut says you would have been balls deep that night. After making out, she, you, AND her friends knew what was going to happen if she left with you. One of them likely thought you were sketchy or ugly or something else negative that now Make Out Girl has to contend with after the Walk Of Shame.

I think if you hadn't made out at the club, but instead pulled her from her friends, my gut says you would have been balls deep that night. She could have kept you her secret if she wanted to, ie "We just talked all night and went for coffee" instead of all her friends pretty much knowing that she got railed back at your place after the hot and heavy display at the club.

Imagine the situation is flipped. If you and your buddies are at the club, and one buddy is making out with some chick for half an hour, if they leave together then you're expecting that he's going to smash (and in all honesty, the next day he'd have a hard time convincing you that he didn't). But, if they're just talking in the club, then they break off from the pack, he can tell you they walked around the neighborhood all night and talked, and you'd take that and pretty much leave him alone about it.

Look, at the end of the day, if you don't get any action in Prague, it doesn't mean anything other than "you didn't get action in Prague". There are situations where you can do everything 'right' and still go home empty handed.

Moving forward, in Prague or anywhere else, I would run the same game that you ran with the Make Out Chick , but with the caveat of not making out in the venue. Go ahead and break the touch barrier, but don't make it blatantly sexual until you're at the bang location.

it's never my intent to belittle anyone when I post, but it's important to spotlight errors so they can be corrected

bondo45atgmaildotcom · 2022-07-19T12:52:04+00:00

Go to a hostel and chat to people in the bar there.

2022-07-19T12:54:50+00:00

Prague is pretty dope. I think hookers are legal there so that's one way. The other way is going to one of the many bars and clubs and trying night game. Prague has really good nightlife

quiet160 · 2022-07-19T16:38:32+00:00

Dating apps are the best honestly. I remember my last day in NYC on vacation I downloaded a dating app and got a girl to come to my hotel two hours before my flight took off! Did the deed and we both had fun and parted ways. Was a crazy experience! Had a nice view and everything.

VNF420 · 2022-07-19T17:23:02+00:00

Bro that was your first kiss, stop putting pressure on yourself, you'll see on the moment. Have fun first.

2022-07-19T14:20:23+00:00

Girls send signals, approach those that do, tell those that you kiss you wanna see a movie with them

MikeAlphaGolf · 2022-07-19T17:13:08+00:00

Find a pub crawl. Be interesting and flirty as the night goes on. Close skilfully.

Unless you’re unusually attractive or an expert at dating you will find it hard to bed a local from Tinder.

majkaveli · 2022-07-19T16:51:44+00:00

Step 1. Be good looking Step 2. Lower your standards Step 3. Be upfront but classy

Yeezus_aint_jesus · 2022-07-19T13:57:30+00:00

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Hot_Funny6531 · 2022-07-19T17:27:47+00:00

Find a nice hotel bar. Other tourists are often looking for an ONS also

SaltLeader3687 · 2022-07-19T17:59:17+00:00

Do a pub crawl

aiakos · 2022-07-19T18:09:47+00:00

Hostels with free community dinner are a great way to meet like minded travelers.

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