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[–]Hortos 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I love when the old heads pop in. I’ve been lurking on this sub for years just watching the strange evolution of the community. I got into the pua scene after reading a website about the ladder theory back in the day. That lead to listening to a lot of pirated David D tapes and me and my friends sarging on Hollywood and sunset a lot. I think a lot of guys really are missing that ah hah moment you get around your 10th ish hookup.
[–]ContWord2346 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Got a link on that ladder theory?
[–]Hortos 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://laddertheory.com/
[–]stanthemilkman88 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I don't think most man can be happy unless they have the ability to get laid.
[–]mylifeisthewurst 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nicola Tesla intentionally remained celibate to focus on science and he regretted it in his later years!
[–]stanthemilkman88 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then died in poverty.
[–]Equivalent_Current_3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ok? I am a happy person even though I have a non existant dating life. dating is only a small part of ones life and I have a hell of a life otherwise to make up for the fact that I dont get dates.
[–]AngeloMacon 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's always been a certain amount of low self esteem braggarts in these communities. Nature of the beast. The thing that sucks when reading any of this stuff is just that so many dudes lack any real life examples.
[–]campskills211 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Online dating after my divorce in late 30s turned into how little do I need to say or do to get laid. Say a few sentences on app, get a time and place, talk and have a drink for a hour and bring her over. If you discuss things like this with guys that have less than 5 lifetime pickups, you will just make them annoyed at you. This sub is interesting because guys discuss how they accomplish casual hookups, which most guys don't try, or rarely get the opportunity.
[–]MrMacDoctor -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
why is that sad?
[–]ScaryPerformance38720 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You put my thoughts into words. Thank you.
Admittedly though, I can't help with one thing: When I see a mofo writing a fantasy fan fic and presenting it as a "field report" that is just so fucking obvious it hurts my brain.
I am trying though.
[+]hagakurejunkie -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hear guys who have small peens say “Size doesn’t matter” while trying to convince themselves that size doesn’t matter. It matters bud. Getting laid on the regular either by one woman or 10 women matters.
[–]trembletenor 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i think that it's easy to ignore your responsibility to yourself by getting lost in "contributing to humanity". a guy who ignores sex to cure cancer is probably not very happy inside himself, or he isolates himself from examples of people who would make him doubt his own choices and wake up. the ultimate man is the one who cures cancer AND gets hella laid. who deals with ALL the parts of himself.
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