Texting Style? [recovered]

Baby_willie · 2022-07-12T16:29:19+00:00

Overthinking is the worst thing. The more you spend thinking about what to say/what to use, the more needy you’re being. Nothing wrong with using an emoji or a lol sparingly. Don’t overthink, keep it relatively simple, but don’t be afraid to use an emoji

MrBlack__ · 2022-07-12T17:42:39+00:00

I don’t use emojis until I’ve smashed OR she uses ALOT like “that’s so funny😂😂😂😂😂😂” then I’ll be like 😅yeah

But after I’ve smashed then I just use them however I feel. It’s like a new level of intimacy, sounds dumb but for women they pick of up on these small differences.

thevic115 · 2022-07-12T18:43:35+00:00

I’m super expressive. I use emojis to emphasize a joke or to convey emotion. But I’m also naturally funny and flirty. Doesn’t matter what you use. Find out what fits your style

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-12T19:05:21+00:00

It depends, lol isn’t a problem.

It’s when you over use emojis and it’s hard to tell whether you are a guy or a girl texting. Men are not as expressive as women so being that expressive over text feels weird and not very masculine.

Specially when you use these ones: 🥰😊😘🥺🤭🙈💕💖❤️

Just basically it’s better overall for men to be more dry over texts.

pua_max · 2022-07-12T21:19:31+00:00

Your goal on text isn’t to entertain her as much as to be like a rock. When I text my guy friend who uses periods at the end of every text it’s not exciting, but he feels very sure of himself. Imagine James Bond texting.

Disclaimer though that this is only one way to go. You can go the emoji way and some girls will eat it up.

mace1343 · 2022-07-13T02:13:21+00:00

I feel like the whole “waiting 3-4 days to text, only use the phone to set up dates” like all this shit is so outdated. So while you set up a date 2 days in advance you realize these girls are getting attention from other guys right? You have to use texting /snap as a tool to build attraction. Especially before the date. The times I’ve tried to not communicate before the date it’s (not always) but several times have led to flakes.

Use all the tools in your toolbox to build attraction.

Muted_Spot_1468 · 2022-07-13T05:30:29+00:00

The phone is for setting dates

Stujitsu2 · 2022-07-12T17:03:32+00:00

I like Corey Waynes view of using the phone/text and its always what worked best for me...don't. Only use it to set up dates. If she won't meet in person you are being used for validation or in her friend zone. Don't get me wrong, if your text game is badass, you can advance with it. But if you are asking about it, its not.

There are a lot of advantages to minimal phone contact. It keeps you from appearing clingy or too eager. It conceals your intentions thus providing a bit of mystery. If you spend too much time getting to know her over text, youll have less to discuss on your dates. Also by texting often you are just like her other orbiters. Just not doing that sets you apart. Also, when you get her number wait a 3-4 days then use it to set a date, you sub-communicate you are at a no BS level. And if she agrees and you set a date, by not texting in the interim, you sub-communicate that you expect her to show up.

no_not_this · 2022-07-12T16:54:31+00:00

You should only be texting to set up dates. Unless you in a relationship then use whatever emojis you want because that shouldn’t be a dealbreaker

TonyGoodz · 2022-07-13T09:47:01+00:00

The answer is prob a bit age dependant

MattPruga · 2022-07-13T11:57:08+00:00

emojis are ok if u use them 1/10 messages, no big deal lol

U1tra1ightBeam · 2022-07-13T16:41:19+00:00

I use a lot of emojis and it sometimes weirds me out when the guy doesn’t use any. First of all it can (but not necessarily) seem like they’re boring, but also at one point I notice the difference and I might become a bit less expressive myself. So I’d say that if a girl uses them, do the same but to a slightly smaller extent.

Just wanted to add as a response to some of the other comments: texting is not just for setting up a date. Many girls want to get to know the guy a little bit before meeting up for several reasons such as, but not limited to, actual safety and to avoid wasting time on someone they have absolutely nothing in common with. I am aware that there are guys who would rather die than accept this, but to those who are unsure: it’s not a bad idea to text beforehand. Unless you are terrible at texting and awesome in real life - then it’s a different story.

perkal8tor · 2022-07-13T19:29:19+00:00

This video is my go-to guide. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2H-DYCILr4Y

sincere_blasphemy · 2022-07-14T05:28:12+00:00

Don't overthink it. I know, easier said than done, but I feel like if someone is judging you because of the way you prefer to speak or text, that's THEIR problem and not yours.

Personally, I like it when people use haha, lol, or :). I do that a lot, so that's probably why. It's hard to know what someone means when they text, so something short could come off as rude if someone took it the wrong way. Idk texting is annoying, haha.

I just hope you find people that are not silly enough to judge your character based off an emoji!

Title	Texting Style? [recovered]
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Upvotes	20
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Date	July 12, 2022 4:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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