Stop thinking and start acting.

I was myself an overthinker and wondered how to approach seduction and guess what? It's only a matter of taking action.

People who are successful with girls or in life in general are not smarter, more beautiful or more awesome than you are. They are simply men who take action and take risks. The so-called "alpha males" or "chads" (I hate these words) are just people who take action and risks.

You have already seen an obese guy with a very hot woman and wondered how that was possible. Well, he takes action while you are still overthinking what seduction is about.

You are already awesome the way you are or at least awesome enough to get with a girl as awesome as you, and trust me there are tons of them. Stop overthinking this shit and start acting.

How do you approach a woman? The same way you start a conversation with one of your friends: by saying hi, by making a joke, by saying something interesting, basically anything that comes into your mind.

Do you have to overthink this? Of course that no, you only want to start a conversation so just say whatever that comes into your mind depending on the context.

If the girl responds positively, you can escalate and ask her number.

How do you initiate the approach? By saying something genuine that you really want to say and that does not only serve as a reason for your approach. Girls can sense the difference between the two cases and that's why most men in this subreddit fail at cold approaching.

Most of the time I approached a girl, I have gotten her number. I don't approach as much as some men out here but I often end up getting her number and seeing the girl.

How? Because I'm always genuine in my conversations, I don't aim at fucking the girl but at talking to know her so I'm genuinely interested in what she says and she can sense that I'm not being creepy.

The context of the approach matters less than its intention. I have already approached a girl only because she had a bee on her, another one because she had some issues with her locker at the gym. That's how random the approaches are but the intention is always genuine.

Girls can also sense that you are not needy when you approach them genuinely and they may even approach you. I'm currently being more approached by girls than the other way around simply because they sense they can talk to me. A girl I never saw before at the gym approached me out of nowhere by giving me a compliment and we started chit-chatting.

So please, stop thinking and start acting. It's easier than you believe.

This comes from a guy who is bald and not that tall (175cm / 5'9") so no excuses. There are more girls who are attracted by you than you think.