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[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Flakiness isn't worth the effort to be dealt with. No need to put so much effort bro in blocking her too. Just leave as she never existed. The moment you stop thinking about her the moment you have dealt with the issue.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
This is pretty much the only answer you need OP. At the most, use a 3 strikes and she's out rule, but I wouldn't even do that. Sounds like you've become one of her orbiters, so have some self respect now and walk away from this girl. She might not fuck you, but she might respect you at least.
[–]goodervibes6969 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
I honestly don’t care if she respects me or not, I just don’t want to deal with that shit in my life. Not planning on talking to her again anyways, so it doesn’t change anything for me.
But I’m not gonna be one of her orbiters, fuck all that noise.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's fair enough, man. Just don't let it get to you. It's not personal. Go chat to some other girls, but make sure you stand out because these prettier girls have got loads of dudes pining after them.
[–]goodervibes69692 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That’s the plan
[–]Kennymacdougall 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This bitch is just using you for your attention and nothing else.
She doesn't like you or respect you so she will flake.
Drop this bitch immediately because she is wasting your time, brother.
Just delete her from your life. Remove, whatever you can.
This will be better for your mental health.
Stay strong bro
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Dealing with women is the worst. They’re selfish, self-absorbed, narcissistic and bipolar. Most of them secretly hate and despise men but desperately want approval and validation from men. They’re not really interested in getting to know a guy or dating, sex or relationships. It’s gotten tremendously worse in the last 5 years with the social media b.s.
[–]Kennymacdougall 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! Preach brother!
Already created a new subreddit to post all of these.
[–]Lighthero34 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No need to generalize
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No need to comment. What I said is generally true.
[–]Lighthero34 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope.
[–]lefthandedaf 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dead convos and one word replies? The best thing you can do is never contact her again. If she reaches out and convincingly wants to hang out, great. Just move on, don’t feed her bullshit validation.
[–]Initial-Laugh1442 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What are you waiting for, to move on?
Im giving her one last chance, but I already know she’s gonna flake. Just gonna wait for the day we planned to meet, if I don’t hear anything, that’s it, im just gonna remove and block.
[–]lefthandedaf 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ask yourself this: would she give YOU one last chance? The answer is clearly no. You’re trying and she’s giving you zero chances. Would she do the same thing to a Chad? Find another girl. You got this.
[–]goodervibes69691 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah no, I invited her again, but I know she’s not showing up so I’m doing my own thing today, if she shows up and then I’m not there, I’d feel a little bad tbh, but she had her chance so her loss.
[–]rjones416 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dont chase her replace her.
[–]Peacebone0001 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Same thing happened to me twice this month. Went out with a girl this week and already made plans to see her this week. We hate to hear it but if she really wanted to she would. Its like night and day when a girl has a lot of interest compared to a girl with low interest.
[–]JustHell0 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe she picked up on the fact you only like her physically?
Ya'll cry and moan when girls say no, despite offering them nothing that a vibrator can't do, while also calling them sluts when they say yes.
Women can tell when you're like that, they know when you don't respect them. Why would someone want to fuck a person who doesn't respect them, especially when they definitely aren't going to achieve climax from the encounter.
You have offered her nothing and viewed her as such, then wonder why she flakes?
Hurr durr I wonder if she's a whole human being and your attitude is just the grossest to adult women, immature, pissy, childish ect. Not hot.
How about trying a woman you ACTUALLY like, so you don't waste someone else time being a superficial jerk wanting only a hole
[–]thebigfishstick17 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Post yourself out with another girl. Show her you have options
Assuming she looks at your stories.
Doubt she does, but I’m going out tonight, so I’ll do that.
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