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[–]-LVRS- 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I do think face is the most important factor.
people say height is, and while i do think it's a close second, i don't recall any girl ever saying the first thing they notice in a guy is his height. i know plenty of guys, celebrities and such that have perfect faces, mid bodies and yet still succeed. i really do think that psychologically speaking, how a face is built is the number one indicator of attractiveness. Johnny depp comes to mind personally.
He is a good looking dude due to how his face is built. it's almost perfect lol. But at the same time, he isn't the most muscular dude, age and cigs are also getting to him. skin and teeth aren't as good as they used to be. but ask any female and i bet you they will still say he's handsome
[–]thedannyRo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, for sure. I'm 6'3 I do consider myself above average in height and most of the time I'm the tallest guy in the room but no girls notice me but they do notice my best friend whos like 5'9 but has an amazing jawline with nice eyes. That's why I came to the conclusion that face really is the most important part
[–]premedchunsa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s honestly probably your lack of confidence. You’re probably more shy and introverted than your shorter friend whose probably an extrovert.
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Face first then height
[–]lolothe2nd 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Face and weight. For me Don't care about hight. Very tall is intimidating but is also a dream somwhat..
[–]Confidenceisbetter 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay so yes the face matters. BUT, not having the strongest jawline because you’re not super skinny is not the biggest factor. You go to the gym so you know a lot of men there do cutting and bulking. When bulking they all also gain some fat in their face, it’s inevitable. Are they suddenly considered unattractive because their jaw isn’t as sharp as a knife? No. What matters is the whole package. Maybe your jaw isn’t your best feature at the moment, but i’m sure you have other attributed that make up for it. Could be great hair, beautiful eyes, nice hands, your physique, etc. you are more than your jaw. You also don’t need to look overly masculine and have all the typical features to be considered attractive. Remember, women often have a different type then what men consider the best body type.
[–]Electric_kundalini -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looks matter to a degree, yeah. Confidence and attitude are just as important though.
I've always wondered why i get more attention from Women when I'm not at work, compared to when I am at work. And it's because when I'm not at work I feel confident in myself, I feel handsome. I can get into 'the zone' sort of speak. I can be myself.
At work I'm miserable, I don't have much confidence in myself and I'm ready to leave. I must give off bad vibes.
[–]jaysucess1_ -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looks are NOTHING compared to raw confidence and good energy
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[–]redditisforgeeks1 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Delusional lol
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only thing that matters is the one thing you don't have (face, height, hair, specific eye color, muscles, car, house, etc).
[–]EloteSalvaje 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but you don't need the jawline to play.
The fat distribution is all about genetics. For some people the face is the last spot fat goes away, and others can be overweigh with a skinny face.
A beard helps if you don't want a surgery.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you can’t talk to women, if your mind goes blank, if what you say is dull, predictable and generic, then your face won’t compensate for that alone. Most girls will look at you with a weird face wondering why the fuck you have no socials skills and why you are so awaits around them specially considering how nice your face looks.
So ultimately you need to be able to talk to women and be witty, fun, spontaneous, connect sexually and emotionally first. Face is a nice perk initially at first sight but then it all comes down to your social skills, your “game”
[–]U1tra1ightBeam 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is your face fat, ugly or do you just have a bit chubby cheeks? The knife-sharp jawline you see on social media isn’t realistic and I doubt girls your age are looking for specifically that. You said you’re tall so you’ve got one of the most important things in your pocket already. Now, what you really need is confidence. Easier said than done though, but girls love a reasonably confident guy.
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