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Rylizzle-mynizzl · 2022-06-13T03:03:17+00:00

As a girl, I think you should text her. From your post it seems to be that she initiated the hook up, which obviously shows interest, especially since y’all went for more than 1 round. She made the last move, so that makes it your turn to make the next move. Worst that can happen is that you find out she is no longer interested, best thing that can happen is that you find out she wants to see you again; but you can’t find either of those out if you don’t take the first step by texting her.

Also, always kiss the girl you’re seeing/hooking up with goodbye. Sets a weird tone & makes it kinda awkward if you don’t

Spotdown23 · 2022-06-12T21:31:04+00:00

just text her if you want to text her stop overthinking it

itsamatterofattitude · 2022-06-12T21:31:12+00:00

If you want the relationship to be about more than just sex, yes.

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Sup3rHD · 2022-06-13T06:31:32+00:00

Is she wants you, she will text you.

You are not the only guy she is talking to.

ZEUSAJ · 2022-06-13T14:16:43+00:00

Ask her out maximum twice. If she rejects or gives some reason both times, back off telling her "Just let me know when you'll be free then and ping me". And yes reach out to her first, just once a week for the first 3-4 dates.

If you met her on tuesday. Text her again next tuesday. Be on a No Contact for a week to let her wonder about you.

The goal is to pursue, not chase. Chase and you'll be needy.

PuffPuffPass_20 · 2022-06-13T15:36:20+00:00

Honestly doesn’t matter she’s going to ghost you anyways.

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-06-13T00:44:11+00:00

Don't text. A girl will reach out when she wants to see you

If you don't hear from her after 7 - 9 days then you can see if she's free

This is not arbitrary or playing games. If the male is the one reaching out then no more than once a week.

When she starts initiating, you can make plans more than once a week based on her contacting you.

Also bro, I feel you. I've had times when I didn't feel like I was great in bed but you can only get better through experience

mrblack-- · 2022-06-12T22:54:41+00:00

I wouldn’t text her until you want to see her again

Spotdown23 · 2022-06-12T20:47:32+00:00

How about you up your bed game

Spotdown23 · 2022-06-13T21:01:11+00:00

Yes text her wtf. This isn’t a game. Idk. As a female, if I had sex with them and didn’t hear back the next day I would honestly feel insulted.

TheCaribbeanRedditor · 2022-06-15T14:12:39+00:00

You're overthinking. Just out of consideration, you should text. At this point, it won't make a difference on whether things will continue

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