How straight forward should I be when asking for a number?

ftdrain · 2022-06-12T01:12:31+00:00

This is fine

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-06-12T01:52:32+00:00

This is terrible. You are rewarding a woman wjth your time and attention and the possibility of going out a date with you for what? Because she talked to you for 2 mins?

You are still stuck in the paradigm of "want girl, must impress and please girl so I can get her". This is the exact wrong paradigm that you want to be in and incidentally the paradigm every average man operates out of.

You need to be asking yourself "why should I talk to her, why should I hang around for a few minutes, why should I ask for her number, why should I take her out and possibly gift her the gift of my precious dick?". What are the answers?

Okay, maybe you should talk to her because she looks attractive and you are attracted. Why should you hang around and talk? Maybe she is actually interesting and charming. (And if she is not?). Why should I ask for her number? Has she done anything to earn it or deserve it? Has she expressed tremendous interest in you? Is she flirting? Do you think she would put ur dick in her mouth? Why should you bother taking her out on a date? Will she enrich your life and make it better? Will she bring enjoyment to your life? Do you think she is sexually liberated enough that sex with her will be worth? Perhaps you don't know yet, and a date is a good way to find out.

See, you need to start thinking the way women do (which is the above). If you steal their game they won't know what to do with themselves.

revente · 2022-06-12T05:48:15+00:00

Frankly I'd make it even more straightforward.

"Hey! give me your number, we're gonna grab some x/y/z next week"

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-12T05:01:42+00:00

I want to hookup! Give me your number

PS1CSLAYA · 2022-06-12T01:17:21+00:00

I asked my futuee so for the time and then after a little convo i gave her my phone number. It was actually for her aquaintance, lol. So i would say be direct, but the worse is no, or a fake number, or jackpot. Btw i only spoke to her because she was with her friend earlier. I guess you can also get a wingman too. Theres plenty of videos about the subject. You really have to just be yourself and love yourself. Then youll walk in confidence and they will be asking for your number. I always say just jump. I went forwatd because of the other girls looks, but i ended up with my soulmate and bestfriend and who ended up being the best stranger ive ever met. Sorry the long reply. Good Luck and give them yours. I also met snd had another girl that was judt a friend calling my phone number by mistake. GL.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-06-12T06:42:34+00:00

It's fine for start and overcome approach anxiety but it's way way too direct. If she already likes your looks or body language it might work out sometimes but she's not gonna know your personality or anything else about you at all. You might get a few numbers but it's better if you start a conversation for the 2nd step if you got better at it

ChillwaveSos · 2022-06-13T17:05:25+00:00

This is a more optimal way of asking for a number: “You are beautiful, give me your number so we can mate.”

Title	How straight forward should I be when asking for a number?
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Upvotes	4
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Date	June 12, 2022 12:58 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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