No strings attached sex with a good friend. Yay or nay ? Possible to remain normal after sex ?

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-04-14T15:11:29+00:00

Sex makes strong brain chemistry. It will change things.

seerslayer · 2022-04-14T18:19:06+00:00

The only problem I have faced is this : You meet someone. You get in a relationship. Your FWB arrangement is over. Now do you tell this person about your history with your ex FWB?

Even very rational and accepting people have hard time digesting maintaining some contact with FWBs. So it's potentially jeopardizing your future relationships and friendship.

I_hate_everyone_9919 · 2022-04-14T16:24:03+00:00

Honestly it's possible, I saw tons of friends having this kind of relationship. It's just hard af

sharpiequest · 2022-04-14T17:40:57+00:00

I have this same situation between a guy I will say is probably one of my best friends. We have fooled around but as soon as we sober up, he goes distant. I question why he won't just do it with me because it's inevitably going to happen at some point and he doesn't seem to have the words. Me being a girl, I have spent hours overthinking what is going on in his head. What you typed here almost perfectly describes what I think he's thinking...so THANK YOU!
I think if there is distance between the two of you and she's only coming for a few days, it is very possible to make it work. I think you have to be upfront and tell her all the things you said here. If my friend could say this, it would make the expectations clear and I have the choice to move forward or not to. Do you think you can have the conversation before you commit to her staying with you for a couple of days? That would be best. If you know you aren't going to go forward with it, best to not lead her on and have her stay.

ItsaVibeman · 2022-04-14T15:40:51+00:00

I used to be Fwb with one of my very good friends, we were fucking for like a year and it remained normal, still is to this day. Just gotta be mature about thing s and have communication. It’s definitely possible.

Narrow-Analysis · 2022-04-14T15:11:12+00:00

Tell her.

BigTBoneDog · 2022-04-14T18:23:46+00:00

Well no, i would say it is imposible. I done it, things do change, but it doesn't neccesarily have to be bad either.

Darkwolfplex · 2022-04-14T22:34:21+00:00

I don’t think you should because she is your ex’s friend too and that just seems wrong plus she may find out eventually and she will lose a friend

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-04-15T03:34:37+00:00

Why are you overthinking this entire scenario ? If you have an opportunity to have sex, don’t pass it up!

HowToStud · 2022-04-14T15:21:23+00:00

Nah won’t work. Tried and tested. Might not be that bad and you could get away with it bit it will never be the same. I’d do it anyways though

MarcusAurelius-- · 2022-04-14T15:35:08+00:00

It isn't that hard just be honest about your intentions and then she can "decide".

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-04-14T20:58:43+00:00

Do ti

Sandvicheater · 2022-04-14T21:55:20+00:00

You make it clear from the beginning that this will be a friends with Benefits relationships and nothing more. If she's cool then show her penis town if not you keep it platonic friendship.

humptyone · 2022-04-15T01:23:06+00:00

Been there done that. Hooked up with a friend from high school. Now in our 50s, we were both free. It's not that I lost a friend, it's that it seems it's all we do when we're together. We use to talk for hours. Now it seems like conversation always leads to the bedroom. Tried to date others. She'll show up, and end anything planned. Lost a great friend over this. Would honestly have had her as a friend.

redditor4206903 · 2022-04-15T07:53:35+00:00

redditor4206903 · 2022-04-15T07:54:47+00:00

You are the most beta person to exist in earth.

Adjustedwell · 2022-04-18T02:51:09+00:00

No, will not be the same. No, you're probably not really friends anyway.

Title	No strings attached sex with a good friend. Yay or nay ? Possible to remain normal after sex ?
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Date	April 14, 2022 3:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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