She takes ages to reply, we didn’t kiss on second date. Is she not interested?

UltimaNada · 2022-04-09T22:06:17+00:00

Some people just take forever to text back. Also, her interest level might not be high. If you get a third date, you should dial up the affections. Maybe kiss her early on and lots of hand-holding and touching. If she she isn’t responsive, then yeah, she’s not interested.

SuccessfulWater2663 · 2022-04-09T22:06:20+00:00

It sounds to me like she just isn’t the messaging sort. If she wasn’t interested she would of definitely either full on ghosted you or made an excuse to not go on the second date. Don’t analyse if she’s interested based on the length of her replies, base it on how you interact and if the conversation is flowing well in person. Go on a third date, and see how it goes. I’d make sure to go on other dates with other girls to keep your options open in case it doesn’t work out with this girl for whatever reason. But yeah, if she agreed to go on a second date and text you first after the second date she’s at the very least interested somewhat.

MountainGoatSC · 2022-04-09T22:50:05+00:00

Can't hurt to ask for a third but you're running out of time. Some people just text slower, hours in between isn't a huge issue, not texting back at all is

DoneWithTheAbuse · 2022-04-09T22:51:05+00:00

Don't get caught up on response times. She's busy doing her shit. You should be busy doing yours. When you see her, flirt, etc. If she lets you touch her hair. You can generally go in for more. If not, she pulls back, it's a no-fly zone. Move along.

Nullroute127 · 2022-04-09T23:19:41+00:00

Women are much less quick to warm up to new men.

As you develop attraction she'll likely pick up the pace.

"We didn't kiss on second date" - that sounds like you didn't try. In general, there's never a down side for attempting a kiss when the vibe is remotely right and she's giving you some interest indicators such a preening (playing with her hair), touching you, etc.

Even if you get the turn away, the only thing that happens is that you're remembered as the guy that was bold enough to try. Even the turn away doesn't mean, "Never" it usually just means, "Not this second." As long as you respect this and don't attempt again too soon, you will be forgiven.

Also, you shouldn't be doing much texting between dates. Text isn't a 'get to know you' or even phone calls. Either should be to get a girl on a date. Leave some mystery between and let her wonder about you.

MegaManXanax · 2022-04-09T23:49:02+00:00

Nobody here knows. You can find out by making moves.

appmanga · 2022-04-10T00:26:56+00:00

Stop fucking texting. Make a phone call. Talk to people. If she doesn't have time for a phone call, she doesn't have time for you on the real.

incognito3107 · 2022-04-10T09:13:10+00:00

So, what is the reason for setting up these dates? For her, it may be just to pass some time in nice company.

Title	She takes ages to reply, we didn’t kiss on second date. Is she not interested?
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Date	April 9, 2022 9:53 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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