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CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-29T20:50:23+00:00

Ouch that's a pretty sick burn.

virusvoid · 2022-03-29T21:04:22+00:00

it's 100% about the vibe you put off.

I used to struggle with this.. i always looked intimidating or gave off a bad vibe.

One girl once told me... "When you first came to the party I was like who the fuck is this guy... get him out of here... but by the end of the night you were still parting with us and now that I got to know you you're welcome to come back any time. It really was a pleasure hanging out. You just seemed intense and dark but we're cool now. Come back whenever"

I was like wtf does that mean..

Took me a while to realize I seemed misterious and intimidating.

So I started smiling more, cracking more jokes and instead of going straight to the boys and greeting them i now go straight for the girls and greet them first.

That got all the girls in our group to sit and chat with me more... In the long run we would go to bars or clubs and I was always surrounded by women.. chatting gossiping, them complaining about their boyfriends.. ect.. me giving them advice from a males perspective..

That made other women that didnt know me make me seem misterious and friendly. THIS COMPLETELY CHANGED EVERYTHING.

Now I feel like i have too many choices which is kinda fucked... lol...

Oh the next thing is.. dont seem needy.. like go to have fun.. dont go to pick up women. If you have fun i guarantee they girls will come to you.

Stop chasing and just have fun. It gives the "I'm just here to have fun vibe I'm not here to get laid." That will 100% get you laid.

Your body will subconsciously give off that predator vibe when you're out hunting for girls.

Ok-Restaurant-9356 · 2022-03-29T20:52:02+00:00

Because you are a nice guy, we all were at one point. Start thinking about yourself first, start to say no, do what you want first. Have masculine habits, martial arts, bodybuilding. Change your clothing. Learn how to treat women. Thats usually enough.

JayinHK · 2022-03-30T02:23:41+00:00

I have the opposite issue. Girls say I look like a player/pimp 🤣

2022-03-29T21:48:27+00:00

Maybe get a less boring haircut and throw out your boring clothes. Also, hit the gym.

Czekraft · 2022-03-30T00:10:27+00:00

When did dating women that are faithful to their husband and god become a bad thing? Don't believe everything you hear.

2022-03-29T20:31:35+00:00

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NoDatabase1552 · 2022-03-29T21:40:36+00:00

a woman waiting for sex after marriage would want to date

I don't understand what this means.

Space_Ape420 · 2022-03-29T22:26:21+00:00

Update your style and get new clothes & shoes.

Get a dope haircut like a fade or undercut

Hit the gym

And most importantly, become cognizant of your body language. What are you sub-communicating?

incognito3107 · 2022-03-30T07:12:48+00:00

I guess you may feel like a person that makes sex sacred or too reserved as it comes to intimacy and touch. Place too much value on traditional values, etc. Try to turn more into a direction of naturalistic alpha male with sexual desires and hard masculine features.

If you feel unattractive, try hitting the gym or simple working out, take care of your clothes and hairstyle, upgrade your hygiene routine etc.

VDKay · 2022-03-30T09:42:22+00:00

Maybe he/she thinks that you look too... Christian / conservative?

Do you feel like you are giving off that vibe too? If yes, maybe you should start becoming a bit more aggressive with your approaches (apart from style and body language that others also are commenting on). Like, make it clear from the start that you are interested in her sexually, not just to become friends. e.g. I came to talk to you because I like you and want to know you better, let's set up a date or something.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-03-30T10:19:26+00:00

It was a shit test dude. Cock funny. Amusing

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