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ReadyTelephone2395 · 2022-03-23T22:27:24+00:00

Yeah it's tough man.

But the reality is, is that the girls you want to talk to (im assuming attractive) have so many great options themselves. It makes it harder for dudes to stand out.

So it is hard to get with these girls unless you are high value yourself.

The other girls you arent interested in, that want to talk to you, see you as the prize, because well your value is above theirs.

If they leave you on delivered for that long that means low interest sorry.

Women that are interested in you will want to talk to you often.

So my advice: work on getting high value (looks, status, wealth)

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-24T12:36:41+00:00

Women always pretend to be interested even if they are not interested. They act polite and smile and even act like they care asking you questions, while deep down they are thinking:

“Does this guy seriously think i’m gonna fall for that?”

“I bet he does this with so many girls”

“Gosh this guy is boring…”

“Ugh his breath smells”

“Why is he nervous, it’s making me uncomfortable”

“He only wants sex, and then he will just act like i don’t exist”

“He thinks he is funny… Im just gonna smile and says yes to everything, so he finishes soon and leaves me alone”

Men however tend to overestimate themselves when talking with women

“Man, she can’t stop smiling, she is so into me”

“Oh boy she is asking me questions, she is clearly interested”

“She wants to do plans great… Let’s go for the number”

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Solo_1428 · 2022-03-24T15:44:30+00:00

I don't waste my time on snap girls. Engaging contact that way is immature and superficial. Stop looking for girls and start looking for done l some damn woman. If you are going after "woman", and it still just isn't clicking. Step back and do a little self inventory. Why aren't they interested? What am I bringing to the table? What are my real motives and intentions? Be dead honest with yourself Many times these answers are staring us in the face. People just deny it. Lie to themselves. Ask a million people until they get a answer they want to hear.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-24T00:49:31+00:00

I know interest rates are going way up, thank god I secured a mortgage before the Fed really hikes them.

er_shakur_ic · 2022-03-23T23:49:38+00:00

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28carslater · 2022-03-24T16:50:26+00:00

The Game is harsh, you either say fuck it and charge in or take your ball and go home. Don't be surprised if which you choose changes from time to time.

drakeinmycar · 2022-03-24T20:47:02+00:00

Girls often time show interest and ask for my snap/number, we talk every now and then for a few days, then POOF she’s gone. Really don’t know what i’m doing wrong.

girlgurufordudes · 2022-03-24T22:50:07+00:00

Hey there, that sounds pretty disheartening. Curious about the content of the messages. Women want tofeel your interest in getting to know them on a deeper level.

My advice is to Google some thought-provoking, open- ended questions to really keep the conversations stimulating and engaging. Keep asking these (in every response message) until there is a solid back and forth and then, include a date invite.

Hope something helps, my friend. Wishing you all the best!

spicy_simba · 2022-03-25T05:35:21+00:00

Hey there buddy,

Of course this is very relatable

Sometimes people may appear high interest at first, it could be out of politeness, out of fear to reject and trying to save face, it could be their type of personality is to upbeat when meeting someone new, sometimes they just want to have a fun friendly moment.

A common mistake is to misinterpret bring nice with being interested and available. A "thank you" becomes "marry me" or "take me to bed"

Also, some people maybe fun in the moment but they have other priorities, and just do not check their phones that much, they may also be getting too many messages from a hundred guys or have issues in replying.

The lesson learned is not to assess interest based on First interaction or what people say. Secondly, do not take it personally, not everything a person does is related to you, or the text you sent.

If people are really interested, they will make effort, they will take action, they will make an offer to do things together.

Now you know how to exchange contacts, that is great, next step is to not take things personally and to calibrate your interest levels assessment.

Also, try to associate value with how people behave towards you rather than how attractive they are.

Puzzled_Ad_7664 · 2022-03-25T14:49:16+00:00

Guys, take a second. I hate reading posts here because they are often very negative or positive. Both happen because the posters are unaware of exactly what is happening. The frustration is due to confusion rather than the girl itself. I get numbers at night and message them only the next evening. As long as I was direct and asked them out to coffee, and they say yes, we 75% of the time will end up going out. I read this post yesterday and felt terrible because this Latin chick who seemed super interested dint message me in 2 days. I messaged her again yesterday saying I hope she was Allright and to tell me if she is free Friday or Monday for dinner. She messaged me today saying she was sick and was down for Monday. No games, no busy, it was direct. I hate texting, and don’t see why it’s used as a yardstick for anything. My ex was a terrible texter but when she texted she would send 10 line messages. Go with the quality than the quantity. One word replies are indication of no interest but until the girl is super comfortable with you, will not text you too much. Works for me

2022-03-26T04:55:09+00:00

Women see us men as options and since they have many options the battle will be hard. Life is hard, you're so lucky if a girl you're interested in has interest in you too AND if she's showing/telling it.

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