Older coworker (F40’s) and me (M21)

2022-03-14T04:45:53+00:00

its just small talk .. nothing more nothing less

RichExplorer2022 · 2022-03-14T04:07:31+00:00

She’s open to something

chief_yETI · 2022-03-14T06:06:15+00:00

we will need a bit more detail. Older women have figured things out, and their flirting is intentionally designed to look like small talk. But at the same time, it could actally just be small talk depending what she's saying.

throwwwawayyy187 · 2022-03-14T08:18:48+00:00

If she’s not flirting then leave it

knowthetruthh · 2022-03-14T05:01:52+00:00

Never Game at a serious job.
Women over 40 are a dead end for a guy your age.
25 and under should be your market IMO. 30 would be the max.

Available_Lie_7910 · 2022-03-14T04:32:47+00:00

Ask her to go out for a drink, let her take the lead, don't say anything stupid. Good luck.

justuraveragestatue · 2022-03-14T08:11:32+00:00

Initiate flirting:

Compliment her clothing
Try to seek deep eye contact
If she does the deep eye contact thing, you’re good

Khec · 2022-03-14T04:07:52+00:00

Ask her for a drink out

Andrew54321 · 2022-03-14T19:29:05+00:00

Do not shit where you eat

nativebound · 2022-03-14T05:51:11+00:00

She’s a mature woman, shoot your shot

BigZmultiverse · 2022-03-14T05:56:32+00:00

!remindme 6 weeks

carloshps16 · 2022-03-14T12:41:09+00:00

This could only be a short term fling

When you will be 30 she will be 50 so... don't have long term expectations

And also: shit can hit the fan very easily if u have something with a co worker

Woujo · 2022-03-14T13:16:59+00:00

2 things:

1) Don't shit where you eat. Unless you are ok with getting fired (or even taking a sexual harassment charge) you should never start a relationship with somebody you are working with.

2) "Indicators of Interest" are bullshit. If you like somebody, you should just go for it and stop trying to read their mind and figure out if they like you.

But again, Rule #2 is irrelevant because of Rule #1.

Busamang · 2022-03-14T16:31:01+00:00

Does she have a ring on her finger?

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-03-14T14:05:44+00:00

These workplace situations are pretty simple. If you give a shit about the job, just leave it alone. How can you have an abundance mentality when you're willing to risk your job to get laid? Go talk to the thousands of women you can hit on all day with zero social/career repercussions.

If you don't give a shit about the job, make a move, but be as subtle as possible.

Amkg2020 · 2022-03-14T18:22:23+00:00

No harm asking her for a drink if you like her shoot your shot

RSNK10 · 2022-03-14T23:11:31+00:00

This is just my take. Yes, she’s older and more likely to be direct, but she’s still a woman and won’t ask you out directly. If she’s striking up conversations with you out of the blue, she’s probably doing it in hopes that you’ll take the hint. Try to bump up from the small talk and ask her what her plans are or something that might gauge her interest. That’s all that can really be said, other than be careful with co-workers

Title	Older coworker (F40’s) and me (M21)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	28
Comments	32
Date	March 14, 2022 4:04 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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