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[–]great_account 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mixed signals is a clear signal. Girls who want you won't leave it up to chance.
[–]SoulRebel99 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Compliance, isolation and Escalation. If she follows your lead despite you reading mixed signals and allows you to isolate, you have your answer.
[–]TopHatSheep9000 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Short answer, cut her off and look for someone who's interested.
More detailed anwer, that happened to me. For two months. I was talking to this girl and thought everything was good, except when it came to setting up a date to meet.
"Oh, my car broke down and my dad was fixing it" the week before that I told her I was available sunday "Oh, sorry, I'm available saturday."
And the thing is (and this is what I want you to remember) she won't mind talking to you throughout all of this time. Wasting your time. She'll make you think something is gonna happen, when in reality, she just likes you making her laugh through text. Two months bro and I didn't even notice.
She won't tell you "I don't like you like that" she'll just keep talking to you which is crazy. For you as a man.
When I realized what was happening I went "What the fuck am I'm doing?" And I deleted her from my socials, Facebook and shit.
When I was studying in the library at my university she sat down with another dude outside near a window outsied where she could see me. When she saw me it was like if she'd seen a ghost.
I just nodded like "What up bich, I know what your doing."
I just keep doing my shit.
Not gonna lie, it sucked, but I had that gut feeling something was up. My tip to you don't ignore your gut feeling with women, and if you have the chance, respectfully call them out on it.
Be aware man, some women, not all of them, just love wasting your time. Just be sure to notice it fast and cut them off as quickly as you notice it, and go deal with women who don't put up so much excuses.
And you can be honest with them. "Hey look, I'm really not looking for a platonic friendship, I'm looking to hook-up, if you don't want that that's okay, I'm just not looking for this."
There, no time wasted.
If she not looking to hook-up, now you know. If she's down, get down with her, that's it.
[–]Important-Quote9544 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mixed signals means she ain’t that into you
[–]CompetitionFair7686 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
When a guy says the conversations was good, it probably means the conversation was just fine at best. In other words nothing special for her.
Men to overestimate themselves when talking with women.
A woman being polite and asking you questions doesn’t mean she wants your dick. It’s not a sign at all.
It’s like saying that if a man asked you questions he is giving you signs that he is into you.
This girl is not interested and the conversations wasn’t that good as you think in terms of seduction.
[–]vroomvroomski 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao there's people like this and then there's the opposite side (which I am on).
A girl told me my voice made her want to get in bed with me and I was like "yeah i do have a pretty relaxing voice haha".
[–]150420throwaway 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What makes a conversation good in terms of seduction and how do I improve on it? Any good reads apart from models by Mark Manson?
[–]homelessfish22 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ignore signals and stop caring about them. I used to be like you. Does you no good.
All you can honestly do is work on yourself outside of that you don’t have much control. Unless you have a gun.
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