Any tips for an attractive woman to seem more approachable?

aymenjouini19 · 2022-02-21T22:26:10+00:00

Smiling is the key, also some guys get nervous when they approach a girl so make it easier and accept them and dont reject directly, guys flirt better when they feel comfortable

depressedBullsFan3 · 2022-02-21T22:25:18+00:00

Before I approach a girl, I check to see if she is looking at me or checking me out. Ill read her body language to see if it seem welcoming.

If it checks out, I start off with “hey I’m wondering how this shirt would look on me, any advice?” Or something with asking for her advice. Then while she’s talking, I’ll take 1 step in, if she steps in, then I’ll get closer. If she doesn’t, then I’ll stay put and end it.

You approaching a guy will probably be like “hey I like your shoes, where did you get them”. A simple compliment will work for a guy.

the_root_of_all_evol · 2022-02-21T22:34:12+00:00

Make it easy for the guy. Signal to guys that you have interest in. Subtle eye contact. Proximity. Don’t be in the corner one your phone. If you see a guy you like, go stand around him. Doesn’t have to be in his exact social group. But sit like in the general area. Have general open and relaxed body language. Do you look like you are out to be social? Or do you look serious and in the “zone”? Generally, just think about making in easy for a guy and being more available.

Number1sun · 2022-02-21T22:23:40+00:00

Smile

IcyAmphibian6455 · 2022-02-21T22:23:09+00:00

Be confident and work on your personality. Don’t act too keen

Another constructive approach to take is ask people that know you personally how you come across etc they can probably help you better than us on the internet.

Minute-Lie-2287 · 2022-02-21T22:37:45+00:00

OLD ( online dating)....it's pretty much just a take out menu if you're a remotely attractive girl.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-02-21T22:49:11+00:00

To get approached more, open body language helps. I unfortunately can’t tell you much more than that because the way I approach and the way most people approach is different, I’m a lot more confident and willing to take the plunge than most guys are, but I know that open body language and a smile are two ways to seem receptive to a conversation that I and others will recognize.

If you want to approach guys, then I should warn you that it can come across as intimidating if the guy isn’t expecting it, since we’re generally used to being the ones making the moves and might not know how to proceed if someone else is taking the initiative. When I was a lot younger, I’d find myself freezing up when an approach was too direct despite the fact that I was far from inexperienced, and while that doesn’t happen to me anymore, I’m willing to bet the average guy is a lot closer to that than they are to where I am now. But of course, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try, just be a bit indirect and start a chill conversation about something the guy is doing or has done (perhaps an article of clothing), and at the end, take the initiative to snag his contact info and also follow up with a meeting spot. Odds are, if you’re as attractive as you say you are, he’ll be interested, but he’ll probably also be afraid to screw things up because he won’t really feel in control or certain of maintaining your interest. You’ll need to get him to the point where he is comfortable making moves on his own, then you can relax a little and do the standard thing.

the_root_of_all_evol · 2022-02-21T23:03:30+00:00

Where nerd t shirts

YoDaddy1069 · 2022-02-22T00:30:01+00:00

When you’re alone, try not to always have your headphones on. That makes women very unapproachable. Also when you’re around your friends, don’t try to cling on to them so hard. Try to be more comfortable keeping some space between them that way another guy won’t feel overwhelmed by your friends

almighty_nsa · 2022-02-22T00:40:20+00:00

Are we talking at bars, on campus, grocery store, work, public transport. We need details on where you are hanging out. I mean what if I tell you to dance with him and you go all pogo on him on the train 🤷🏻‍♂️.

Czekraft · 2022-02-22T01:43:53+00:00

What kind of guys do you want to be approached by?

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-02-22T02:02:02+00:00

me, you, dinner and drinks tomorrow let's go hahah

imdonewiththegoodgas · 2022-02-22T22:35:54+00:00

Stay off of your phone in public. This is for your safety as well. See too many women with their heads buried in their phones. Be aware of your surroundings and you’ll see more opportunities. When I see a girl on her phone in public for too long it signals to me that whatever she’s doing on her phone is more important than life at the present moment. And you wanna just smile more, if you see a guy you like just smile, if he has balls he’ll approach you. The ball is really in your court as a woman. You could also try online dating.

Title	Any tips for an attractive woman to seem more approachable?
Author	the_root_of_all_evol
Upvotes	2
Comments	31
Date	February 21, 2022 10:21 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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