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Lucazzz14 · 2022-02-17T11:45:37+00:00

At least you accept that looks get you more opportunities. At the end of the day, play with the cards you've been dealt with and be comfortable in your own skin. Sure you may have to put in more work, but it's better that sitting at home sulking.

All of what you said helps as well as being funny. But when talking to her and the interest is there, throw in an innuendo and see how she reacts. Don't be afraid to push the boat out. They may see you as a friend because you talk and act like a friend, and not as someone who is decisive and goes for what he wants.

Zolinymus · 2022-02-17T11:58:46+00:00

They can get turned on by feeling desired. I had a habit, that when I knew I don't have a chance, I started speeking more freely and said out loud things like "you turn me on", "Please hide your breast, cause I can't pay attention to you", " I wanna kiss you, sadly I'm not your type" (Sadly I did not notice their reaction back then)

Also I guess thats why some women fantasize about geting raped. The man cannot control himself, the desire controls the man to make the woman his. (They don't want to get raped, they just fantasize about it) Please don't do anything stupid...

You can be ugly as hell, but if you can speak freely to them, you can seduce them.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-02-17T12:10:33+00:00

You need to create “sexual tension”.

Sexual tension is that feeling that happens where one person expresses their sexual desire for the other by flirting, and you can feel some sort of tense electric vice in the air happening, your hearts start pumping faster, and you both are getting more nervous because shit just got real, you both are aware of the desire but can’t say it out loud as it could break the tension.

That sexual tension is very thin, it can break easily causing rejection, or it can be resolved by kissing and having sex.

That sexual tension can be created by flirting sexually, acting like you are turned on by her, telling her she is so special in your opinion that you can’t help but want to kiss her, acting like she is making you feel so hot that you need some air, etc…

It can also be accompanied with physical touch and physical proximity, like caressing her hands, or grabbing her waist with both hands while you stare at her eyes and lips with a smile.

However doing all of this in a smooth way takes practice. If it’s not properly coordinated, you are likely to break the tension quickly and be rejected by her because she will feel very uncomfortable about all this.

So you need practice

thelambofdeth · 2022-02-17T14:16:14+00:00

If you don't have the look, you need to have the status or the money. It's simple.

Czekraft · 2022-02-17T22:31:11+00:00

Looks will get you to hello, value will get you past hello.

Looks don't just apply to your face. It also means your style, how you dress, how you hold yourself up through body language can make you appear more attractive. I'd practice smiling in a mirror.

Your value is something only you can decide. Knowing yourself, being curious about others, willing to play, looking to grow, being unpredictable, all goes towards how others see you.

And if they like what they see, you can tell by their body language or how they speak to you.

SlyderKmK · 2022-02-18T21:54:59+00:00

I'd guess OP is really just kind of out of luck, then.

NoDatabase1552 · 2022-02-18T06:57:01+00:00

Sounds like they're already fucking with you.

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-02-17T16:37:39+00:00

You need to be white, tall, attractive, rich with status to be noticed by a mediocre women. Then you will have a small chance to fuck them.

EvadingTaxes · 2022-02-17T11:17:03+00:00

Vibes

Because they can cause a ton of fantasies and especially for women attraction is strongly based on that

deadthat · 2022-02-17T11:26:49+00:00

Be funny. A good sense of humor will drop panties like flies. I enjoy a man who can make me laugh- good looks or not. Chances are, I'm fantasizing about sitting on his face soon after.

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