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[–]Silver-Variation890310 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The things you describe, making out, cuddling, are hardwired into your biological desires and needs.
You are a human, you have thousands of years of evolution driving your brain, and considering reproduction for the survival of your species is pretty much the only purpose of your existence, you will never get rid of these needs.
If your dates are going bad, then you need to get better at dating, not stop dating.
DM me if you honestly do want to learn.
[–]Therocksays2020 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tinder rarely leads to relationships. Most dating apps go nowhere because most women are dating multiple men
[–]putcoolusernamehere 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's no real need to snap out of that desire. It's normal. Just don't let it be the only thing driving you in life.
[–]Czekraft 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like you are putting your hopes and dreams into these dates. It's best to keep your expectations low, realistic, and achievable. Like rather than thinking you might get lucky whichever night, you tell yourself, "no matter what happens, I'm going to have a good time."
[–]starvedstoner 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I want the same thing and I think it's natural.
[–]rustoof 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are over investing too fast.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, easy to read between these lines.
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