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[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 173 points174 points175 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Same as always... You ask her out.
If she says yes, you hang out with her and escalate kino. If she says no, you move with your life.
[–]Human-City-8231 116 points117 points118 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This guy sleeps in peace
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most nights, yes. It's always easier said than done, though, especially when you're new to dating.
[–][deleted] 132 points133 points134 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
“The quickest way to make a woman unhappy is to give her everything she wants.”
[–]random_question4123 43 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So I shouldn’t pay all her bills and pay her money?
[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly! Let her worry about all that.
[–]fatalcharm 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
While there are always exceptions and gold diggers, women generally don’t care for money and luxury they just want security and comfort. Having said that, everyone has a different idea of what “security and comfort” means.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only if you don't like her and want to make her unhappy.
[–]Mini_groot 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There's too much truth to this... doesn't matter if it's a girl you just met or you've been dating for X years.. same principle.
[–]no_spoon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What’s this from?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Book of Pook
[–]damiancontrol 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
You need a passion, a hobby, or a purpose or whatever the hell you want to call it.
This will make her fight for your attention.
[–]M4RKJORDAN 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This ^
[–]nckds 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Funny to see you here man! Huge fan of ur music!
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[–]damiancontrol 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Are you asking because you've yet to find yours and you want some ideas on how to find it or you just want to snoop into my private life lol
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[–]damiancontrol 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hid3out
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[–]damiancontrol 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
what type of design
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Good for you my man
[–]zertsetzung 34 points35 points36 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
"should I do the same?"
What else can you do at this point? The situation between you and her has already devolved into playing games with each others heads.
So you both are pretty much deadlocked.
Remember, seduction is not supposed to play out like a war or a power struggle.
Its a dance that is supposed to be enjoyable.
Best advice is to try to not over game a girl.
An example of this would be like getting a girl to chase you but not changing it up and meeting her halfway.
You dont want a girl to just chase chase chase you and nothing else because eventually she is going to see through what you are doing and get tired of that shit and grow cold.
This is a game of balance and happy mediums. Not extremes. Making a girl chase is good but dont over do it.
[–]LossyCoffee 26 points27 points28 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Let me try here. I'm not your typical seductor I'm pretty boring and not really part of the game.
But what are you doing for her now? You say she's no longer putting in effort, so I assume you are. How is it that you're putting in effort, making her life with you fun every day, and making her excited to see whats going to happen next?
[–]LandscapeClear1630 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dance, monkey! Dance!
[–]ur_notmytype 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
What did you give her?
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
My attention and I told her I liked her as well a few weeks after she confessed to me
[–]ur_notmytype 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You told someone you liked them weeks after they told you? My interest would had left too and also the chase is boring if it’s only one way
[–]Cyrus_the_Great98 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All women are a red flag
She's just open about it
[–]ur_notmytype 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah I just dont give myself to everyone
[–]disavowed 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being intimidated by women is a bigger red flag. How's that working out for so far? If a username can set you back on your heels, I can't even imagine what happens when women start *gasp* voicing their personal opinions to you lmao
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
how can i get her chase energy back again
[–]M4RKJORDAN 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you should not worry about any chase energy and shit like that.
This can't be the recipe for a healthy relationship IMO
I agree with people that say "You need a passion, a hobby, or a purpose"
[–]joelvaldezg 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Repeat the whole process again.
[–]MK2718 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How to act when a girl pulls back or goes cold
[–]almighty_nsa 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You answered your own question: “I gave her what she wanted”
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So... what should have been done? If she shows real interest and chases, if you don't validate or give anything back she'll think you're either not interested, or that you're not assertive enough to go after what you want?
[–]almighty_nsa 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Im not saying you should chase her away and be mean. Im saying invite her on dates still but do not just sit around and be friends with her, it’s only going to ruin it for you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh, fair yeah. But sitting and being friends isn't giving her what she wants, at least I'd assume so if she continues to meet up for dates.
[–]almighty_nsa 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If shes already gone cold there is not much you can do, aside from maybe introducing a little competition into the game.
[–]Vril_SA_PL 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
The chase is over??? What does that even mean!! Yes you might have her attention now But if you don't keep your game on Keep your guard on! She will find a weak spot in your defence / armour And if she finds out If she believes you to be unworthy of her She will dump your ass
That's the female imperative Their biological nature So be warned! She'll keep testing you until you are not together Any longer All the best Good luck I hope it works out And if it doesn't Well shit Enjoy that suffering too Cheers from Poland
[–]-Godly 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
God this is tiring
[–]tehdox 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m gonna be honest, the parent comment is not useful at all. Just using big words and making sentences.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Are there any books on famale biology that I should be aware of?
[–]foreignredcars 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
start with learning how to spell female
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
U feel bubu?
Well, actually, it's more so psychology than biology.
[–]PuroPincheGains 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody knows what that means dude. Did you ask her out? Have you been on a date? Are you texting? What's the situation?
[–]Sup3rHD 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont ask her out now and dont chase, leave her on read
[–]TheTruth221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah do nothing
[–]Clayton268 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You give what you get
[–]BreakinLiberty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Need more details
How long have you been dating etc
[–]THENCKGAMING 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
how did u get her to chase you?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
sending mixed signals,acting uninterested but also showing interest and taking her on an emotional roller coaster
[–]THENCKGAMING 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ohh. What's the girl's age, if you don't mind me asking?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
14 lol, i’m 15
[–]THENCKGAMING 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its all good man. just wanted to know
and yeah ik im too young to be doing this shit
[–]Sensitive-Permit-877 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chase is never over. Thats not the way my brother. You don't change what got you her. She will now start testing you harder and harder. This is the hard part. Getting women is the easy part keeping them is not. Do not change at all. What worked to get her is what will keep her
[–]lilbigguy412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
stick around till she gets bored and drops you
[–]Both_Hat1114 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Enjoy the the ride! The honeymoon even spiced up put your tongue and everything into every orifice! After a shower haha
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