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ChicoBrillo · 2022-01-17T17:41:47+00:00

Let her hit you up. I’d start making steps towards moving on if I were you. Not that you have to delete her from your brain, but back off a little. She’ll most likely come back around.

Conscious_Total01 · 2022-01-17T17:41:27+00:00

You already asked a question and what would you be texting for tomorrow?

WillyM35 · 2022-01-17T18:17:56+00:00

If its strictly fwb, just sit back and wait. If you love her, go help her witn the furnace.

sh1ftyswar · 2022-01-17T18:42:50+00:00

Tell her to reach out but check on her in a day or so just to see how she is doing

DoomerToChad · 2022-01-17T17:41:58+00:00

I would text her myself. Every time I told a girl "let me know when you can" or left the messaging to her i got ghosted

Zombie3185960 · 2022-01-17T18:55:18+00:00

Fwb from the woman's perspective is same as a man's lol, it means you don't have any obligations to each other and it goes both ways, meaning she isn't obligated to prioritize you at all, which she wouldn't want to since you don't prioritize her, either. So that means she doesn't initiate or communicate or anything really unless she actually feels like it and it's convenient at the time. And you are free to be the same way back. That's fwb. If you're getting fussy because you feel that she's not prioritizing you enough or that she's not communicating openly enough then you need to reevaluate what you're doing here. She's not your girlfriend.

GroundbreakingAd8077 · 2022-01-17T19:20:59+00:00

She probably is dealing with shit, let her know you are there for her if she needs help, I know it looks kinda blue pilled but seriously there are times to not be a hard ass, I don't really know which one is better between reaching out or letting her do so, just don't come across as butthurt

AloofusMaximus · 2022-01-17T18:00:51+00:00

So just quickly scanned your linked post, and looks like you treated a FWB like a girlfriend. That's why you had issues, and confused the both of you.

A FWB should be seeing occasionally, fucking and hanging out a bit (around the fucking). If you're doing social activities together with friends that's what couples do.

As far as your current thing... Well if she's pinging you, try to get together with her. If you're pitching a meet and she's being wishy-washy, drop her.

Typically I'll pitch a meet up 2-3 at MOST, if she's not seeing you she's not going to.

cbh28 · 2022-01-17T19:28:38+00:00

Just tell her to text you wheneve she's ready and that's it. If she texts, great, if she doesn't, oh well it is what it is. Either way, keep your options open.

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