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jam-unam · 2022-01-14T18:44:23+00:00

Just keep cool. Act like nothing happened almost. She might change her mind. Don’t be weird.

slenderman404 · 2022-01-14T19:35:16+00:00

Great! I am proud of you. There is a saying that goes, " In life, we must choose between two pains. The pain of action or the pain of regret. And the pain of regret last a lifetime." Now it would seem a little less scary next time you approach!

Plamb79 · 2022-01-14T18:51:57+00:00

Good example for the quote of mine…”It’s better to know than to wonder - Phillip Lambson

cinder_16 · 2022-01-15T02:01:39+00:00

I needed this. My fucking co-worker is leaving and I haven't had the balls to approach her. I tell myself that it's because of me working at a place where there's a heavy concentration of my very religious community + the entire "don't sh*t where you eat" phrase - but in reality, I'm just a pussy.

-SODA_STEREO- · 2022-01-14T21:44:15+00:00

Don't shit where you eat

universityhound · 2022-01-14T19:33:08+00:00

Good attempt. Brush it off and don't approach her unnecessarily.

In the future you may want to look for more signs though that she is interested in being asked out. Like keeping her engaged with non-work topics. If she giggles, smiles, and looks at you in the eyes she might be interested. You've just revealed your intent with a girl at your work so now it makes it harder to ask out other woman or you look too desperate or like an office hound (assuming you work in an office).

sh1ftyswar · 2022-01-14T21:00:58+00:00

This right here fellas

Creative_Wallaby_439 · 2022-01-14T22:18:24+00:00

Best thing with work is to:

wait til one of you quits
increase her interest until SHE askes you out, or askes to come along if you mention something in passing

Natural_Green888 · 2022-01-15T07:06:58+00:00

I wish i had the courage to ask out a male coworker. Ive been subtle about it, so either a) hes not aware im interested or b) hes not interested. Go OP!

DingusPrimeHere · 2022-01-15T01:53:11+00:00

I once asked a girl at work out, and she instead screenshot my proposal (it was through Snap) and told me “she doesn’t date co-workers”.

No worries I can respect that, but why take a screenshot? I knew she did that as a thing to gossip over, so instead I blocked her on everything afterwards and never talked to her again other than anything strictly work related.

Turns out she was a lying cunt, I overheard her talking about how she fucked one of the recruiters at the company.

I’m so glad I’m out of there.

Comprehensive-Mud508 · 2022-01-15T12:33:02+00:00

That’s the spirit! 👏🏻 Fortune favors the bold! From now on make sure to not to be weird around her, don’t hide in the corner or avoid looking at her. Just be yourself. She might even changes her mind. 😉 (this is from a girl’s perspective)

Big_Thony99 · 2022-01-15T04:53:48+00:00

Don’t be hopeful, why are you wasting time on this chick

Rasfen · 2022-01-15T15:31:25+00:00

Yes my friend but there is a saying, don't shit where you eat!

Vladtepes84 · 2022-01-15T10:00:03+00:00

Never shit where you eat, do not approach girls where you work, DO NOT!

Agusmarvel96 · 2022-01-15T12:44:07+00:00

I had something similar! I got rejected by a girl (she told me "we will see" when i invited her to drink something) and i left very proud of myself! Is this the kind of feeling you got too?

newlife909 · 2022-01-15T20:29:39+00:00

Good mindset to move on but wrong way to approach. Did you just ask her to go on a "date"? or even worse... did you just flat out tell her you like her? Please tell me you didn't do that.

Girls don't like that bro, it comes off as extremely needy. She could have been attracted to you but that goes out the window in the blink of an eye when you say stuff like that.

You should be flirting and building interest then say something like "I'm going out for drinks later, wanna join?"

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