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appmanga · 2021-12-31T07:32:11+00:00

Don't flirt. If you're in the typical school that gets around and it makes it seem like you're desperate. Just be a chill, confident guy who's not afraid to ask girls for their opinions or their help. If you're not an athlete, be in clubs or other activities where you can be involved with girls. The biggest problem guys in high school have is they don't know when a girl is interested in them. If you have enough "friends" who are girls, they'll let you know who those girls are.

2021-12-31T11:35:04+00:00

My advice is stop directly chasing girls Cus that just makes you desperate, look at it like “will I like them” instead of the other way around and that mindset will boost your confidence a lot. What helped me was trial and error, you won’t be great right away but eventually you’ll get there. I used to watch some YouTube channels too that helped me alot

2021-12-31T10:23:09+00:00

just be u bro dont trip

2021-12-31T21:11:53+00:00

Dude the one piece of advise I wish I could give 17 year old me is as simple as it sounds. Shoot the shot and fake it.

Like hey, she might say no, your peers might laugh, but having the balls to laugh back and say something smart not letting them see it matters is the ultimate flex. If you're being social and in a position where somebody may poke fun, have a couple witty responses in the bag and throw it back at them. At the end of the day confidence is all a show, we are all insecure, we all have our doubts, we all fake the ego!

Jamesdun2866 · 2021-12-31T22:08:58+00:00

Focus on yourself

Focus on getting more involved socially as you said but in different ways, join some clubs/societies have fun. You are not young forever and dating is a pool of death, have fun and do things for yourself before its too late.

If you are introverted drive your mind in different ways, focus on things that give you extra skills and provide intrigue for the rest of your life. eg: learning an instrument provides you opportunity later in life which is much more valuable than a school fling

Same-Raisin-3104 · 2021-12-31T16:20:18+00:00

You remind me of myself in my highschool days . Well tbh i'm not way older than you. I'm 22 years old. And my friend if there's something that i regret now , it is the fact that i have not played around enough in high school. I'm in college now , high school felt more special idk why. Anyways let's get to the real stuff, when you're on your death bed , you won't be regretting the things you did , you will actually be regretting the things you DID NOT do. So my friend, make it obvious that you like girls , flirt with them when you're talking to them , make flirty eye contact when in a conversation with her , make her feel your energy. Be confident and smooth at the same times. Oh and heads up , you will be getting rejected and you'll make a fool out of yourself no matter what you do. Some girls will think you're smooth , and others will think you're a weirdo. Your job is to distinguish the ones that find you attractive from the ones that do not. Make mistakes , they're the only way to achieve mastery. Good luck.

2021-12-31T11:47:59+00:00

Just be good at something. Anything. I don’t care if it’s music, sport or computer programming. For every imaginable talent there’s a groupie

Grappleheart · 2021-12-31T18:18:13+00:00

You should be more outgoing. Join more clubs and meet people. Make sure your interactions with women are natural.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-12-31T11:55:00+00:00

You need to tease girls, roast them, be playfully mean without going overboard and you’ll get their attention easily.

then it’s all about flirting when you are alone with one girl. behaving a little bit more sexual with your body language, touching the girl’s hands, telling them they are cute and special,… etc

KabalMain · 2021-12-31T04:47:54+00:00

Be a downright jerk and women will flock. Worked for me in high school.

Pbear4Lyfe · 2021-12-31T22:27:01+00:00

My advice for a HSer. Disregard females aquire currency

BigCockMonster5150 · 2022-01-01T03:47:25+00:00

WOW thats hot

stevetabernackle88 · 2021-12-31T03:32:08+00:00

get tinder, make your profile look good and interesting, and then just spit whatever game you got and if it doesn’t work then learn from it and keep trying, i never had sex until after high school, tinder is honestly good to get good practice for flirting, looking good, and maybe getting a hookup out of it or a date whatever ur looking for there

mindless_scrolling27 · 2021-12-31T18:20:42+00:00

Well, as someone in her 30s, here's some advice that may sound dull to you, but seriously, be yourself. Forget about having "game" because all that really entails are tricks and tactics that aren't authentic to you as you are naturally. It also only/usually attracts people for the short-term, which, as I'm reminded I'm talking to someone far younger than myself, may actually be your endgame versus what it may be for someone older like me. You would have to know what your priorities are.

As for getting invited to more social things, I'm not the best for advice in that area. I go out a lot solely because my boyfriend takes me everywhere lol. I'd look into more hobbies though to meet people which may lead to outings. It's how I made a network of friends just based on things we liked.

IrregularKingV · 2021-12-31T23:19:13+00:00

Would you like me to link you to great advice I gave to someone else for pretty much everything related to dating/ social/ sex/ fun life?

If so say yes down below and I'll link it (Just so you know it's ALOT OF INFO but it will help for all aspects of life!)

bbcSnowbunnyslayer · 2021-12-31T23:33:35+00:00

Yeah, what @appmanga said, don't show any desperation. Cause later down the line youre gonna have options and that cherries gonna pop.

bbcSnowbunnyslayer · 2021-12-31T23:36:51+00:00

Also, when guys say be a jerk or a dick, they mean don't give them the girlfriend treatment when theyre not youre girlfriend. And don't be a yes man either.

gangweedsavedme · 2022-01-01T01:04:10+00:00

Join clubs ur interested in, make genuine connections, making real friends gets so much harder after hs, maybe go for a position in a club, it will force u to learn how to gain people’s favor. As for love, it should come from mutual natural chemistry, don’t ever seek a gf out of thirstiness, and don’t be afraid to love

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