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[–]mrderek1786 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dress nice, be confident in doing what you are doing, do what you want, act how you want, own your space. Have fun and meet some new people. Going solo is a huge opportunity. I do it all the time and have a lot of success. Just don't single yourself out or hold yourself back from the interactions you intend to put out there. Be confident, don't worry about what other people think of you and good luck! Have a great time!
[–]meowcaster8 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
thanks man I will put myself out there
[–]ThePherdBeve 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do your approaches look like?
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Strike up a conversation with people in line. Very easy way to make friends. People are nicer than you think and will even let you join their group. Also, recommend a drink that you really like, and mention that it’ll get you fucked up fast and cheap (I usually go with the Long Island)
[–]meowcaster 4 years ago* [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
honestly I befriended 2 girls who were very cool and once shot my shot to get their number they declined and then they left but before so they both gave me a hug and left and I am like well I feel to tired and no energy to try again..
[–]Lust9897 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s awesome that you put yourself out there though! That’s awesome!
[–]meowcaster 4 years ago* [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
yeah man I had fun and I will repeat it again soon. u should do it and go
[–]Lust9897 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m a lot less confident in that arena. I had to move back in with my parents, and I can drink cuz of meds. I can but it’s highly not recommended.
[–]meowcaster 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
u don't need to drink to have fun. this is what I do and I just go and dance ( I am an adrenaline junkie ) so I get hyped easily without any drinks . just the music gets me moving. also man doesn't matter if u live with your parents or not go out there and have fun
[–]Lust9897 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s actually pretty reassuring. I always felt weird after all that happened with my medical. I might go do that. Could be fun.
[–]UnknownThrowaway18 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just went out last week for the first time n it went great. Just be yourself n don’t be nervous. If you’re nervous, everything goes wrong. Trust me, you got this
[–]IDhl89 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Give us an update tomorrow!! It might Motivate us to do the same…
[–]random_af_guy3 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Strike conversations with literally anyone except other creeper dudes prowling that place. Talk to a couple that's there. Talk to the old people. Talk to the staff. Talk to the people that are clearly not giving off an agenda vibe. Have fun and make friends. Get a little rowdy. Throw down some controversial opinions. Don't be afraid to annoy the hermits that are anti social. Ask questions unapologetically. You are the main character in your story.
If you genuinely seem to be having fun, someone will approach you.
[–]willgo-waggins 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck man!
[–]Hoho2332 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I went out solo last night as well
[–]Nimexu 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wish I could say something but I’m no alpha just be yourself good luck
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
alpha/beta is the biggest whack shiit ever, same with introvert/extrovert, you can be both depending on your mindset+ energy levels (that depends on your hormones, we are literally machines operating with chemicals that dictate our behavior),they tryna corner you in a box and limit you, dont let them
[–]L0n3W01f_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True shit my bro, never simplified it like you did
[–]random_af_guy2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Alpha == Having an opinion that is not the majority and owning it. That's it.
[–]roostzilla 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Assume every girl is already in a relationship until they express they are not. Squinty Eye contact and a laidback demeanor go a long ways my dude. Cheers
[–]meowcaster1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
actually yeah that actually works. and it has worked 💪😁
[–]loofyd 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
where will you go ? clubs or bars ?
will they allow you to enter club without a girl alongside you ?
asking because here you need a girl to enter a good club
give an update on how your night goes !
[–]meowcaster 4 years ago* [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
updqte
went to a club solo refused to let me in at first then I played some Instagram magic and they let me in. danced solo for like an hour until locked eyes with a girl and we danced for 2 hours and I am just dancing with anyone haha Idc
[–]loofyd 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
When you're done with your night, lmk what Instagram magic did you play
[–]meowcaster4 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
just msged the club on Instagram and told them they didn't let me in lol and they apologised and let me in
[–]L0n3W01f_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Really they didn’t let you in by yourself? What state do you live in? I live in DMV (DC, Maryland, Virginia) and as long as you pay the entry fee you are allowed to go in
[–]meowcaster 4 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
nah germany
[–]L0n3W01f_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh lol, how did you night go bro? Hope you had fun. Not sure how it like in Germany but would love to visit some day
[–]meowcaster2 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
it's cool man and just posted my field report 😎
[–]Confident_Opposite43 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what I found weird with Berlin, unless you have equal number of girls some clubs wont let you in…
[–]Equivalent_Ad7389 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Don't approach women when you're drunk, that's just stupid. They deserve more than that.
bruh i don't drink 😅
[–]Equivalent_Ad7389 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good, you're killing it then.
[–]random_af_guy1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Agreed. Liquid confidence isn't real. Better to realize that the great majority of people are just as fucked up as you. Don't put them on a pedestal.
[–]devansh30 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best of luck
[–]SquareKey2611 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Good luck. Once you get the hang of it you will realize wingmen were never needed.
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