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[–]Healthy_Working3911 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Texting is no different from in person conversation
[–]AddictedDepression 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
It is to me. I don’t know why, but I am super smooth and confident in person, but I can’t text worth shit. I’ve lost out on girls so many times because I can’t text
[–]Healthy_Working3911 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My brother is a fuvk boy I just told you what he told me there's no different it's all in your head
[–]AddictedDepression 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So what should I say do you think?
[–]Healthy_Working3911 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bring up something you talked about last night
[–]devnasty009 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
How is saying “no but I can be an actor” Smooth?
[–]AddictedDepression 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Kinda hard to explain. Had to be in the moment. It worked so you can’t really hate
[–]devnasty009 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I guess so lol. It just made me chuckle 🤭. Good luck with the lady
[–]AddictedDepression 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What do you think would be the best text to send today to ensure interest is still there?
[–]devnasty009 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well if you are more smooth irl than text, the strat would be to keep it short and try and get her to meet up with you somewhere
Would sending “hey last night was fun, I’d like to continue getting to know you more if your interested” would be good?
[–]devnasty009 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally I would keep the first half of that- then suggest a place. “ hey last night was fun I’d like to continue getting to know you. Are you free to meet up at X later tonight?”. That’s just me I’m aggressive if I smell blood in the water. You seem creative enough you could figure out how to go about it. The important thing is you know the strategy and to play to your strengths
[–]Nofapdeity 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s a display of confidence and a witty thing to say
[–]devnasty009 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m sure if done on the right tone that’s a lot more funny than it comes across on paper
[–]1990MeWuzBorn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
^ This. Also, you sound like a decent person, but fuck the dude who low key had feelings for her. She was very clearly sexually attracted to you and you could’ve paid $10 for an Uber to get her home after you smashed.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It’s all about being fun, and using call back humor:
“They should give us an the Nobel price for best kissers”
[–]AddictedDepression 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel like sending something like that isn’t me. I don’t think it’s horrible but in my head sending that would only end up getting me ghosted
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
then do what is you
[–]chriipping 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry man, but this sounds kinda cringe
It works for me
[–]sokenny1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I am not one to text much either but I do not overthink it much and thats what works for me at least. I only use it to set up dates. Just a small check-in and after the 2nd or 3rd message I’ll try and set something up.
[–]toastedwaffles2002 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As others are saying, say what comes natural. Don't ponder it, you'll overthink and craft something inorganic.
[–]ShyShredder 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you aren't into texting, you could arrange an other meatup with her. Can't be that against it after hanging out of your mouth.
[–]Cookies993 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text whatever feels natural, and try to keep it short and fun or teasing. Texting is mostly (at least for me) to have fun and figuring out when you can see her again. Or just send her a snap of whatever cool thing you’re doing, if she has time, she will reply and the convo will probably flow naturally.
Just avoid over-texting, be yourself, give her a call even if you really don’t like texting, and don’t make everything sexual, if she says she just showered, just leave it at that bro, there’s a hundred other thirsty guys sending that “unique” sexual shower snap you’re thinking of
[–]nupollution 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I had a great time the other night. Would you like to get together sometime soon?”
[–]Dumbengineerr 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t be that guy. Just text to setup dates. Let her keep wondering what you are upto.
[–]chriipping 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would just get something going yourself and ask her if she want to tag along.
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