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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
YOUR. Not our
And yeah, different gals require different approaches. Your vibe is whats important. If they dont care at all- then they just have bad day/ or they’re the ones u should avoid. Assuming u got some game ofc.
[–]freel0der 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
yeah vibe/state is allmost everything in bars. Its hard to say, but they don't nescerially have a bad vibe. just a bit lower energy usually.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you mean energy state, thats different.
And you’ll be much successful if you pickup their energy level and match it + little more positive, not too much.
[–]freel0der 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, they differ but are connected. At least for me being in state leads to higher energy/tempo usually at least at a nightclub or bar with music. however I can be in state and super chill/lower energy/tempo also, but its less normal for me. I was actually thinking about the matching of the energy yesterday, but thanks for the tip anyways.
[–]ksmith11011 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Who decides if a girl likes you? Is it her? Or is it you?
If it’s you then that implies women don’t have agency over their partner selection.
Ie, your vibe SHOULDN’T matter that much. If it’s make or break in all cases then her preferences are irrelevant.
Maybe you fit her preferences and she has agency, therefore you don’t need the confident outgoing vibe to get her.
[–]freel0der 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yes it makes sense. I guess if she thinks i truely is her type maybe she will not care that I am not in a woho state at that moment.
[–]ChoppedBelAir 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes it's just that not-goving-a-fuck vibe that attracts them. It's confident or is perceived that way. Sometimes when I'm the least prepared to chat up a girl is when I do my best. You know when you just got off work and haven't showered in a couple days, forgot to brush your teeth or put on deodorant because you were in a rush that morning but you go out to hang with the boys anyway and since you're so rough you don't put any thought into trying to pick up but then bam! You get one where everything goes down like clockwork even though your plan was not to
[–]irepMiami -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Haven’t showered in a couple of days?!
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[–]ChoppedBelAir 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I mean there's that but also the mindset of not worrying about pick up game because you plan or expect to and that working in your favor.
[–]freel0der 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yes sometimes when you give up the girls come running
[–]ChoppedBelAir 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
No. Its called the Opposite Effect
[–]irepMiami 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why am I getting downvoted? You mean to tell me that we’re not giving a fuck about showering and brushing our teeth? Then going out and being around women? To each their own but nothing feels better when a girl says you smell good.
I Guess people take it for granted that most people got those things down.
It is not me. I allmost only use the downvote feature if someone is spreading misinformation.
[–]vanillapopsicle 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends on a) how hot you are, b) how hot you are in relation to her, and c) yes, how socially tuned she is to properly discern your vibe.
[–]JacobMoogberg69 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They happened to be more desperate than you.
[–]earsurgery9 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
why is this?
Because your 'vibe' and your 'game' is of fairly minor consequence. (despite what coaches and scammers trying to sell you stuff need you to believe)
What's important is are you her type. Physically. Is she attracted to you
If she is, it's not too hard to close the deal. Good vibe or not
And if you're not her type, all the pua theory in the world won't help
I gotta completly disagree on it being minor. My pool of girls is waaaay bigger on a good night out compared to one feeling a bit meh. Girls will approach on the good ones as well. The "energy" you put out means a lot. Not saying looks don't matter though.
[–]AlternativeBird2482[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
where did you learn all this about state?
I found out about it first through pua theory. The rest is experience and testing different stuff. I found for me I got a very strong prescence for better or worse depending on my mood.
[–]1990MeWuzBorn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because they’re probably not 100% sober and/or find you physically attractive?
most are kinda tipsy in the bar so that levels it out so I don't think so. I don't go for properly drunk chicks since I slowed down on my drinking. However people react differently to alcohol so it might be that certain ones loses a lot more of their social observation than others when drinking.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes you get lucky and cross paths with the girl at the rare, right time when she’s down to fuck whoever. Happens a lot to girls who get alpha widowed.
You mean just got dumped?
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