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[–]TheSunshineMan 52 points53 points54 points 4 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
Who the F cares if it looks like you're going out of your way..
You need to get over all these insecurities.
You like this girl, go talk to her..
Or not.. and just regret it for the rest of your life.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
…And fall into a pattern of doing this same thing every time. She won’t be the last. Go for it.
[–]TheSunshineMan 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago* (19 children) | Copy Link
Exactly this..
You miss out on this girl..
Then the next..
Then the next 10 after that..
One year of not taking action..
Then 2 years..
Then 5 years..
Then 10 years..
Then you'll 50 wondering WTF is wrong with me, all I had to do was go say hi to girls I liked and could've had an abundance of women for the last 30 years..
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this shook me to the core.
I need to man the FUCK up right FUCKING NOW!!!!!!
[–]5_7pickup 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wished I started 6 years ago instead of 6 weeks ago.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Or you can keep saying hi for 50 years and still not get jack shit. I’ve been at my job for a month now, top 5% looks, top 1% athleticism, top 1% performer on the job , abundance of females (both coworkers & customers) and I have not gotten anything at all.
All they do I eye fuck me all day long. What is wrong with you females? Stop staring at people day after day if you don’t wanna suck their dick… fucking weirdos.
[–]TheSunshineMan 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Same as always .. guys thinking that looks = girls..
News flash..
It doesn't..
Game = girls
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Ok answer me this, please.
I force myself to come out of crippling social anxiety and talk everyday, I compliment them… rarely (no free validation) they compliment me.
I initiate contact, some of them do as well. I posted movie like stories on iG..
What, in the world, can I do to advance past this friendly acquaintance bullshit!?
Like I’m using game to its maximum capacity and it feels like I’m right at the edge of the pot of gold.
If you check the statistics, coworker dating is rampant and extremely common. I undoubtedly should be a top option, what is going wrong here? 😭
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
All of this is friend zone stuff..
How many girls have you asked out?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
The one with a chad like boyfriend is the only one that has asked me so far. My no game having ass told her yesterday that I would never let my girl have guy friends, I think that brought her guard back up.
She probably wanted me to say “guy friends are harmless blah blah female fantasy blah blah”
My other girl option literally stares deep into my soul everyday comes over to me, touches me and everything but when I try to steer the convo towards after work free time, I can see the walls slowly rising with “I work a second job blah blah” I fought through it tho and I think we getting lunch on Thursday but dam, why would you eye fuck me everyday, talk, touch, but start coming up with excuses when it’s time to get serious? Smh
[–]TheSunshineMan 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Who knows..
One or two girls is nothing..
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Bruh I can’t type out every single bitch, I just gave you two examples of how the majority are acting
[–]spicy_simba 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Contrary to what assumptions might be going in your head, What things may seem like to you is not really important.
Ultimately the other person will decide and you can not control that.
Step 1 : unplug your critical brain, that is critisizing your actions and aborting them before they happen, this is a safe defense mechanism, but you are safe, this mechanism will be calibrated through experience, just like through experiencing touching warm things but they are not burning hot.
Step 2 "Hi, my name is ... and I think you cute and mysterious, I am curious to know each other you and see what comes out of it, would you like to join me for a short walk during recess ?"
do not let your brain do calculations predicting if it's gonna work or not, this is like playing slot machine, you do not calculate all combinations in slot machines, you simply put a coin and press,
Just communicate your meaning politely, and allow space and time for a person to answer, accept the answer whatever it is.
There is no use living in fantasy land if a person is not interested in making new connections for whatever reason.
There is a lot of reasons for you to move on on the other hand.
[–]RedPillAlphaBigCock 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have 2 choices , approach her and do your best , or be non needy across the room and wait for her to go off with another guy then regret it for ages .
Just approach and JOKE around , have FUN and do your best
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have to go out of your way anyway. But guess what? You never went out of your way, you went where you decided to go, Tiger. March on
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]gbizzle2 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha thats what the cuties do. They do weird shit like that when you're young. Thats why I left them alone in my youth. Now that i understand women they cant even hide no more
[–]dobbs1997 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah man you gotta stop tip toeing around and just go straight for her, no hesitation, just go sit next to her with the energy like you own the place and start talking. simple as that, you trying to find out ways to do it without going out of your way will just prolong this and you might just end up never doing it, so embrace the fear you’ll probably feel cause it’s normal and go talk to her anyway.
[–]FlatDistance5 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t matter, I tell women all the time I saw you from all the way over there and had to come meet you.
Stop over analyzing
[–]Estspain1991 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I did this once, got a test back and approached her as I was leaving and asked how she did on the test, we talked for like 20 minutes and I got her number
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make eye contact with her, walk towards her, don’t break eye contact. Once you’re close, whip your dick out.
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