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jsbach123 · 2021-10-06T01:21:35+00:00

This post might seem cute, but it's a recipe for disaster, especially the end when you said you need woman to validate your worth. Holy shit, the power a woman will have over you will make your life hell. Woman can instinctually smell this. If she feels you need her, she'll be less attracted to you as nobody can respect another a man who's clingy and obsessed.

The best relationships are based on want and not need. "I want to be with you but I don't need to be with you".

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-05T23:43:54+00:00

You need some hobbies in your life..

https://bucketlistjourney.net/hobbies-list/

Here's a 100.. go try a couple dozen and good chance you find something you like..

Try a few dozen more, and you'll probably find a few more..

SDdude81 · 2021-10-05T23:31:07+00:00

Sounds like you are a heterosexual male.

anothersadgirl1 · 2021-10-06T04:57:06+00:00

Maybe you’re depressed. I know I am haha

shaggy2gay · 2021-10-06T05:36:16+00:00

I am 100% in agreement with you about 95% of this. Having sex with women / being around women you like and who like you - this is one of life's few true joys. Anybody who rolls their eyes at this notion, or tells you to "get a hobby," can fuck off.

Stop just short of "I need them for validation." I understand this feeling completely and it will lose you a lot of opportunities with women. Try to minimize that feeling and where you do feel it, do everything in your power to convey with your actions that you DON'T feel it.

CertifiedBucket8 · 2021-10-06T05:46:56+00:00

It’s going to sound ironic but try semen retention. You’re gradually start enjoying every moment of your life again

no_not_this · 2021-10-06T00:06:01+00:00

I know what you mean. It’s why we get hung up on women who we “had” in the past. Remember she wasn’t yours it was just your turn. As you get older you will realize pussy isn’t the end all and be all. It’s great but it’s not everything. When you think the way you are, you aren’t portraying a high value man no matter how hard you try. You seem kind of desperate. When a women comes along she will sense it. Trust me.

Working out should make you feel amazing. If it doesn’t your doing it wrong. It’s a high. Get addicted to it. Your game will thank you.

You need abundance. Talk to everyone. Because when that 9 comes along you will definitely fuck it up at this stage. Don’t be desperate. Women come along when you aren’t trying. They come along when your the shit and they are drawn to you.

truthbomb999 · 2021-10-06T05:42:47+00:00

I subconsciously feel like I need women

Therapy, therapy, therapy. You are chasing external validation for some reason.

Work is 8:30 hours of getting tortured serving dumb ass customers, it feels like hell.

That's why they call it work and not partying.

There is no validation, no one gives a fuck about a young man. No compliments, no one to listen, no one who cares, just be a man.

This is true, but that's life in America. Nobody cares about men. Just make your money and go somewhere we are valued.

Comfortable-Unit-897 · 2021-10-05T23:46:51+00:00

I think that is a very normal need. Do not settle for someone that likes to screw. Find your freakin soulmate!!!

lookintothefuturem8 · 2021-10-06T17:07:23+00:00

Bruh you live in canada. If your life is shit its on you

apstevenso2 · 2021-10-06T00:10:17+00:00

Geez dude, get a hobby...or some friends.

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