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[–]MidnightNinja627 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Work on your confidence. If you were to become a girl for 5 minutes, and look at your current, male, body, what would you find attractive? What would you wish was different?
Hit the gym. Work on your style. Invest in some cologne. Become the best version of you that you can imagine. Don’t worry about finding someone until you can make yourself whole. You aren’t whole right now and it’s apparent by the way you talk about yourself.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Looks are important but i why do i get the feeling that when you try to pick up girls, you are 100% boring them to death. Guys who complain about not having the looks, tend to be insecure, needy, desperate, boring, predictable and logical when talking to girls.
[–]Few-Dress-6093 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol, “logical”. So just make no sense and that’s the trick huh?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
By logical i mean that they see everything through a logical mindset rather than an emotional one. Interacting with girls through logic, rather than through emotions and empathy, just shows you don’t get girls
[–]Few-Dress-6093 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol I don’t have a problem with getting girls, and to me if I have to toss logic out the door for a girl….she’s not the one
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good for you. But i don’t think you understand my point because of your lack of reading comprehension
[–]Few-Dress-6093 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol, you can do both. But to say to not use logic is ridiculous.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you over weight? How much do you exercise? Are your teeth clean? Do you have good body hygiene
[–]outsidecan8 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
They don’t even have to try’s because girls come up to them to talk
It's so funny how the guys on here who claim to have 'secrets' that they can't share or are shilling for some PUA coach etc all say 'girls don't care about looks. Girls aren't attracted to looks in the same way we are because girls aren't visual'', yet every day there's posts from people complaining that their good looking friends are literally getting approached and have girls throw themselves at them, and even posts from girls that are like ''I have a really good looking neighbour just moved in. Not spoken to him yet. How do I sleep with him?!!' etc hahaha
It's time people stopped living in the mysterymethod days and stopped being so gullible. We all have eyes and we all see how it works.
Your DHV stories mean jack shit too a girl who isn't physically attracted
[–]MalibuProducer77 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
You're actually right. I believe the same thing. We need to stop deluding ourselves. It most definitely is 90% about how attractive you are. For both sides too!
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
100% how attractive you are, are girl will not like a guy if she doesn’t like his looks first. Simple. Girls want a good looking face, if you haven’t got one, stop looking at the 9s and 10s and thinking simply by learning the game you will get them. Look for girls more in your league
[–]MalibuProducer77 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can't say nothing bad about what you just said, it was honest and truthful. Why do you think girls that are 4s and 5s would go for a guy that's a 6 or 7? Because even they know shooting for the guys that are 9s and 10s ain't gonna work out for them! It's simple. It's called leagues like you said. Also, that's the reason why men use money to jump up a few leagues/points. Because if you don't have the looks like that, you gotta have cash
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck the guys with money, the girls ain’t with them for who they are or their dicks, so they will always be lonely, some guys have hot Brazilian or Russian chicks but those girls made them cucks, whether they know it or not. I always say, the game is worth learning or reading, because it does give you confidence etc. But , learn more than just that. Learn what women want, and learn who is right for right for you. Ppl on here or even ppl in real life tell you they get hot chicks or they know some ugly guy who has a hot chick. I’d love to see the proof man. I know ugly guys who always make out they getting laid with 9s and 10s. Never seen them turn these girls into their girlfriends, what a coincidence they meet these girls and fuck them when nobody can see lol
[–]GMEandAMCbroughtme 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m a decent looking guy and I get way more pussy than some of my buddies who I would consider real good looking. No homo. Girls initially always gravitate towards them first but later move towards me when they see the personality.I’ve been told all my life that I’m one of the funniest mfkers people have ever met. I say this because confidence and personality can overcome any other deficiencies. Work on your confidence, humor and personality. Become fun to be around.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No , you said you are a decent looking guy. And you said your friends are attractive, which means in a way you have been pre selected, if you got good looking friends and are good looking yourself, you are NOT ugly. You can have amazing personality, be funny etc but very very (like less than 5% of women) go for guys who are ugly based on confidence and shit. You are not ugly, so you can’t say your game raises you above deficiencies
[–]GMEandAMCbroughtme 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m a 5-7. Most of my friends are 8+. I’m trying to demonstrate the power of intangible traits. Confidence, humor and personality are ATTRACTIVE to females. These traits make an ugly person not ugly.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re a 7 then, so yeh your slightly less than amazing looks are made up by your personality etc. If you were 5 or less, wouldn’t matter how funny or good of a man you are. Unless they were gold diggers they wouldn’t go for you. You are right, personality matters etc, but you are not ugly, hence why it works for you. Ugly people need to sod off the game and realize they should go for girls in their league. Name me one ugly famous person , 4 or less, who has a hot chick (gold diggers women don’t count)
[–]pokemonpokemonmario[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you genuinely think it's looks lower your standards go for ugly girls there are plenty that have nice body's but have horrifically low self esteem from not getting any male attention or atleast many times less than all of their pretty friends.
[–]MalibuProducer77 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can't say you're wrong. Me and another guy here just had this conversation about getting women in your league. Even girls that are 4s and 5s don't really shoot for the guys that are 9s and 10s because even they know it's not going to work out for them like that. They will likely go for the guys who are 6s and 7s. That's how women are. As long as the guy is above them, they're interested
[–]Confidenceisbetter -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
‘The game’ some men have is how they carry themselves and not so much their genetics. Men like that often care about their physical appearance, so they have a sense of fashion, their hair is styled, maybe the even work out. They are confident, not in an arrogant ‘i’m better than everyone’-way, but they know they don’t have to hide themselves or be embarassed about themselves. For them talking to a woman seems natural and casual and that energy they give off is picked up unconsciously. So while they might not be doing anything obviously different than you they can get very different results.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dont kid yourself looks matter a ton. An ugly dude will get no looks despite carrying himself well
[–]Confidenceisbetter 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn’t say looks don’t matter. I said presentation matters. Someone who doesn’t naturally look like a model can achieve a lot simply by taking care of themselves, dressing well and being confident.
[–]Method_Rude 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dress well, always do my hair, use good cologne, do my hair, I always try to look good
[–]Appropriate_Ad3327 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How tall are you?
[–]Method_Rude 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
5’10
[–]One-Leg7314 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Bro I exactly know how you feel like. I’m also 21 but live in a new town and don’t really know anyone but I feel like girls are not attracted to me at all. I also have friends that girls usually go up and try to talk to them instead of them. It’s frustrating
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok so why dont you do the approach then? Go approach girls.
[–]One-Leg7314 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk I maybe I feel too intimidated by these beautiful college blondes. Also I just feel like they have 0 interest in me because they don’t even look at me. They just quickly turn when I try to make eye contact.
[–]CountFocus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
First improve your looks:
Second, stop watching porn and masturbate so you can gain some sexual motivation.
Third, stop being a bitch and grow some balls, and have some self-respect, even if you're really ugly there is a lot you can do to get women, I know plenty of men like that. Now, if you're ugly and a little bitch then you're fucked up.
I do have balls. In fact I feel like I have way more then the people my age. I’m able to speak the truth because of it. I have lost all my high school friends because I tried to have a serious conversation with them about slowing down on the drugs and making sure we all passed school. I offered to help with homework and everything but they hate me for it. I also asked a girl at my school straight up to go have lunch with me. She said she has a boyfriend but that she thought I was cool so she still would. Most guys my age would never ask a girl out like that
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