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[–]Bogzbony 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Say hi and smile then try to create interaction with her to check if she is receptive/in the mood to talk.
You live in the same place than her so it should be easy to introduce yourself.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok thanks I will try it out!
[–]bigmanpav 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just introduce yourself and ask her out like others have said. The only difference from any other interaction is that she is older than you, so be ready to respond to her shit tests about age. Have some good witty replies, like "Oh I'm actually 100 years old, I'm a vampire." You want her to think that she can have fun with you and it's no big deal that there's an age gap. But be prepared that she may not be interested at all. Most women prefer older guys
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes I will keep that in mind! But do you know about how to know if she is into casual relationship or if she is into a serious one ?
[–]EbonyProgrammer 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro she's very likely not going to want a serious relationship with someone who could be her son, casual could be possible tho. Compliment her in a way that makes her feel youthful and sexy again if you end up going on a date.
The general technique for bagging women and keeping them interested is giving them a unique good feeling that they don't get often. For some guys, the unique feeling they can offer is the feeling of enjoying a breeze on an expensive trip, for other guys it's the feeling of an ultimate orgasm, and for other guys its the feeling of being appreciated regardless of physical appearance. Find out what positive feelings she is missing from her life and try to offer that. Since she is an older woman I assume it's the feeling of being lusted over by men like she was in her 20s, but ofcourse I could be wrong, good luck
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow thanks a lot man! Its such a mature and well laden advise! I will see what I find so that I can provide her that in my way!
[–]make_me_a_good_girl 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The people over at /r/CougarsAndCubs might be able to give you a hand. 👍
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks a lot for the suggestion!
[–]Max-Zook 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Based on your perception of her daughters’ ages, your age gap might be more but it could very likely be less. My point is, age is just a number so don’t let it get in the way of your trying for it!
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Thanks a lot for the support it means a lot to me!.
[–]RedEyeBlackEye1 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
older women want a handsome, confident, exciting, strong, charismatic, humorous, viral young man to help her "relive her Glory days"... especially in the sack.
OP, you that guy? Go for it, just spit game the same way you would to a chick your age. Older women HAVE SEEN(AND DONE) IT ALL SO DONT TRY TO BULLSHXT HER. just let her know you are interested (through actions), compliment her, and game like normal.
My easiest lays(best bj too) ever have ALWAYS been chicks 10+ years older than me, they literally make it TOO easy for you.
The ONLY way you'll get it easier is a chick passed out drunk...but I wouldn't recommend it.
wowowow this is a gold mine of info and sadly no I don't possess that kind of confidence but I will make sure I develop that kind of qualities over a period of time. Thanks for the best advise I have ever recived!
[–]DakiAge 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Just go for it.
Say hi and introduce yourself to her.
Ask her out and go for a coffee date with her or something like that.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Man i feel thats too direct.!
[–]DakiAge 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't be a coward :)
You should overcome your social fears.
She won't reject you and even if she does, you will at least have your answer unlike waiting for her until she finds someone else.
You have a point buddy! Atleast with this I can get a closure if its Yes or No! Thanks man!
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This is how you have to be with older women. A 40 year old women has been around the block, generally speaking she’ll probably have less tolerance for being indirect.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I agree with you buddy! But can you tell me on like how to know if she is into me or not cause she is way mature than I am and I don't want to you know left hanging in between and make a mistake which will blow up my chance.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Assume she’s interested. Once again with this kind of age gap you have to have supreme confidence. If you pussyfoot you’ll lose most likely. Especially if you’re initiating the approach.
Wow so I have to be at the top of my game! This will take a lot of prep time!
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Direct is what you want. Polarize and get the gears turning in her head. Seems scary but it's the best strategy
Fortune favours the brave !
[–]Sgtengineer 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tell her what you want
[–]finegameofnil_ 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
start my work
cringe.
I know I didn't plan this question properly so sorry for that😂
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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thanks for the advise man! I will surely check out your post.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wear a santa clause beard to enhance your age... Works every time 😏
THIS WAS A JOKE. DO NOT GET MAD AT ME
no problem😂😂😂
[–]MO_drps_knwldg 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
You’re already making your first mistake. You assume you want a relationship with her, but you don’t even know her. Older women want a guy who is grounded and isn’t needy and overeager. Why don’t you start by introducing yourself and having a normal conversation? Based on your comments, it seems like your confidence isn’t there yet. Women are drawn to older guys because they have life experience, maturity, and usually some status. You seem too needy at this point.
Well to be honest I am not needy but yes I lack that confidence and I maybe kind of overeager. But I can curb it if you can help me to buildup my confidence and my attitude. I will definatley strike a conversation with her though.
[–]Oirman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree on this. Why assume she’s good enough for you or that you’ll like her enough to want a relationship?
That’s all projection/coming from your mind. An easy trap to fall into but a trap none the less.
For sure you want her physically, so start there...
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You saw her on Tinder but didn't match?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No I saw her swiping tinder profiles when I was in a bus standing and she was sitting like 3 feet away from me
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