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[–]yuckyuck13 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The sad truth of dating is finding the right person takes a lot of effort. And love isn't something that's found it's built upon. This is going to sound very counter intuitive but instead of finding a partner find people you want to be friends with. Over time you'll met their friends and their friends. Next thing you know there's someone who is well suited to be more than just a friend in your life.
[–]Voltz_got_a_potato 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You meed to know people on the deeper level. Joining activities or actively going out on dates help alot.
[–]tnpersona 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess the question is why can’t you find anyone that suits you? I can kind of relate though. I was basically single up until I met my wife at 28
[–]Gaydame 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Finding love is like trying to score a hoop from the other end of the court. Take 1000000 shots.
On the other hand, if you want a shortcut to love, you're going to need to find someone with similar values to you. That's where groups come in. In the old days this was hard, but now we have the Internet, and with only a tiny bit of effort you can find groups of people who have similar values and likely a suitable guy for you.
All you need is a little effort, creativity, imagination and time.
[–]rordog28 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
You looked like you’ve slapped the Menu a hit. I can catch friends if you everybody else’s caNt reddit very well I’m online Rordog.com.au Boneshifty.com, haven’t stayed with a friend since they’re last war I’m in the military
[–]rordog28 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m a casual pass away for Batman’s gang . U can find Me Private easy
[–]devnasty009 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should come out with me to cheer you up
[–]pokemonpokemonmario[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Whys it sad you can't find someone who suites you? What steps have you taken to try to find love ?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Cause I would have thought someone by now would stop be and be like, “want to go out?” Or something. Do I really not understand how this works? Is that unrealistic?
I haven’t done much, I go to events sometimes like clubs but.. I haven’t found the one yet…
[–]pokemonpokemonmario[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
What indication do you give to guys that you want them to stop you? Are you making eye contact and smiling at them, playing with your hair things like that. Are you dressing in a way that would catch a man's attention? Do you walk around on your phone or with ear phones in ? How's your body language and pasture is it open and inviting?
Avoid clubs unless you just want something casual. Try meeting someone while doing something you enjoy doing random, example yoga class.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hmmm. I never would have guessed that would make the difference. I have been dressing up all nice and pretty but… I’m far too terrified to look at them or things like that. And plus some of the guys that are cute are walking with other girls anyway -_-
[–]CReal_ 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Eye contact makes a world of difference, you've got to give subtle signs, so guys can gauge interest.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hmmm. Okay. Thank you so much!!
Is it unrealistic to think they would just like come up to me and start talking to this random person they’ve never even met..?
[–]CReal_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're not wearing headphones, make eye contact and smile, I think you'd be surprised how many will come up to you. It also helps to not be on your phone and to be alone, being with loads of friends tends to scare off.
[–]Stujitsu2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I am curious if you are dating or not. Are you giving guy a chance? Are you so attractive that you are intimidating and thus not dating. There are a lot of variables
I’m not dating anyone right now. I’m single and probably will be forever.
[–]Stujitsu2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lets see if we can help. Are you giving guys a chance when they ask you out.
No one has asked me out.
[–]Stujitsu2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you flirt?
I am going to tell you the boldest thing I have seen women do. That is walk up to a guy you like or think you might like with your phone number written on a piece of paper. Hand it to him and say call me! Or get a friend to do it if you can't its too much for you, try flirting.
Hmmmm… I am very socially awkward so for the life of me I am not sure how to flirt tbh.
[–]Stujitsu2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I bet there is a book on it
[–]bandsupjay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love in college this might be a first
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