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[–]thethrowowoy 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link
When she asked "where" you should have just given your address. I think she knew you meant your apartment lol.
She was definitely looking to come over, or at the very least was hoping you'd be out somewhere that she could join (e.g her friends abandoned her).
No harm in messaging. She'll remember why she messaged you. If she reciprocates the messages, she still wants it even though she is sober. If the messages are dead, leave it... you'll get another drunken "hello" in a few weeks/months haha
[–]FunComprehensive4364 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well she knows where I live and my building has a massive parking deck.
Fuck it full send l I’ll text her and see what’s up.
[–]thethrowowoy 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You'll probably get a response about be being 'totally' embarrassed and having a hangover, then she'll initiate a proper conversation 'so, how have you been?'
When I came out of my LTR, I got an abundance of these kinda of messages. Girls know when a guy is back on the market.
Even if it doesn't go anywhere with these messages, she'll be in drunken contact again, no doubt.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So I’ve only known her for about 2 weeks. Only hung out twice and the one and only time she was at my place I still had a picture of my ex on the wall…
I wasn’t expecting to have anyone over for a long time. I’m only a month out of a break up.
[–]thethrowowoy 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If the picture of the ex was a deal-breaker you wouldn't have got a text...
Don't overthink it, see how the messages go
[–]FunComprehensive4364 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for being one of the few sensible people to respond.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well you were right. The picture wasn’t a deal breaker, we hung out with some of her friends last night and the vibes were AMAZING. I had to leave early for work the next day but she jumped up to give me a hug and made plans to hang out this weekend. A little confused but I’m going with the flow.
[–]gbizzle2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Hell no! He should have picked her up
[–]thethrowowoy 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Nah, he was probably chilling and comfortable at 11pm
She was ready to be a delivery
[–]FunComprehensive4364 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro I was vibing with the bros on Apex. Don’t judge me.
[–]gbizzle2 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh 🤦🏽♂️ she was drunk
[–]thethrowowoy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uber Eats
[–]FunComprehensive4364 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
So she knows where I live, she’s been to my apartment before with one of my friends. She was supposed to come over the following day to hit the pool but flaked. She hit me up later that night for drinks. I went out the vibes were ehh. This text caught me by surprise.
[–]gbizzle2 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Did you make her pay for the drinks for flaking
[–]FunComprehensive4364 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Drinks were free, we know the bar tender, I tipped well.
[+]gbizzle2 -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She has to pay for flaking. Its disrespectful and you failed the shittest
I mean the drinks were free dude.
[–]DryAdhesiveness6579 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
your fine. you didn’t fail anything people on this sub are ridiculous.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had no idea what a shittest was until his comment. Sounds childish to me.
[–]gbizzle2 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Those are the games women play to see if they can get away with disrespecting you. It starts off as covert and subtle disrespect and grows into overt disrespect if you let her get away with it. The guy who responded does not know what he is talking about dont let him do that to you.
His name is dry because he makes these women dry
[–]TheSunshineMan 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You should have said:
"Come over now, I'll help you find a spot."
Instead of small talk about other bullshit.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well she knows I live in an apartment building with a huge parking deck. I didn’t want to be too forward in case she wasn’t trying to hook up
[–]TheSunshineMan 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You never said anything about sex.. you just asked her over.
You still had plausible deniability.
You can keep playing it safe - and keep missing out on chances to get laid - because you were afraid of being too forward.
That's your choice.
Mhmm, I hear that. Your right I’ll be more forward next time.
[–]mydicksore 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don’t think you fumbled anything, she was drunk and you made it clear yourself that she never showed any sexual attraction towards you before
[–]FunComprehensive4364 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I’ve only hung out with her twice. The first time were flirted a lot towards the end of the night, I gave her my number and she texted me the next day. The second time we hung out it was ehh
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When girls do this I feel like they were feeling lonely but then came back to their senses. I dont think she had any intentions in actually meeting up because she would make it more obvious.
[–]kylefofyle[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I read the title and thought, “yes”
[–]MuMuGorgeus 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's late night you are doing whatever you are doing, she reach you up drunk and with a very suggestive attitude.
You did right! Trying anything in this context would be a bit desperate on your part. Maybe it's just me, but it's kinda turn off that a girl needs to be drunk to show that she wants me, it shows that she's immature. One thing is good though! You know that she has "feelings" for you.
If are into her, invest, laugh it out about when she texted you while drunk and ask her out. If she's elusive, you know that she has to be drunk to want you, in that case, just forget about her and move on.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I’m 23 she’s 20. Definitely at different life stages but agreed. I’ve never been a fan of drunk hookup even in college because consent is a big think for me. It’s one thing if we get drunk tougher, it’s another if she’s drunk and I’m sober.
Currently contemplating on texting her about he other night, or trying to spark another conversation.
[–]quantumactual 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Come on bro...always assume women want to see you when they reach out to you.
9 times out of 10, when a woman says ‘wyd’, she wants you to make plans to see her.
[–]FunComprehensive4364 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Noted, I’ll be more forward next time if there is one
[–]Legitimate-Lies 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah you had the opportunity to invite her over. Should just scooped her from the bar
[–]Jamesdoink 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It is what it is 🤷
This chick is confusing man. Went out with her and her friend last night and she flirted with me all night. I went to leave and she jumped up to give me a hug and made plans to hang out this weekend. I’m genuinely confused.
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