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[–]FreeBuddhistReloaded 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are two kinds of women in the world: those who show you interest and those who don't. And if a woman showed interest in the past and suddenly stops doing it then you let her go. She went to the other side.
The simpler you make your life the happier you will be.
[–]leafhog 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It took me a long time to learn about soft no’s. I spent too much time chasing women who really weren’t interested in me but wouldn’t give me a clear no. Find a low threshold for rejection and move on once it has been reached.
[–]lights6969 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great advice, more people need to realize this
[–]Zak_ahmed1 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like to always PLay an Uno reverse card.
why ask for her number when you can GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER.
That way, if she's genuinely interested she'll hit you up. If not , no pressure on her and she won't text you.
Simple maths. No need to overthink it and say to yourself ''should I send a text now or in new years eve on 2099'' or '' why is she ghosting me'' etc.
ALLeviate all the uncertainty from your life .
OH and have a pen and a piece of paper with you.
For a more professional look prewrite your number on a sticky note and have an emoticon on it with ur name on it.
for icing on the cake, you can have a little message on it. eg. if your name is Bob, write '' Be like Bob,
Bob is always prepared :).
When the moment arrives. Be like ''here's my business card'' or here's my atm card. the pin is 3534. Say it in a funny manner.
Do what ever works for you
IMPROVISE , ADAPT , OVERCOME
[–]d0pey911 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If only women took more initiative, this would work. Unfortunately women often don't take initiative with regards to initiating the first message, etc. And if they're attractive, why should they?
[–]Rude-Kaleidoscope-58 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. That's a matter of being polite and expressing respect or not. If she doesn't even respond me back, it's just like ignoring me while I say "hello". Why would she deserve my respect?
[–]mage14 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I doesn't owe her a response
[–]omlanotherday 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/ihadastroke
[–]vizualXmadman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
/u/TechBroMoney what if this is a Instagram situation, I have told her my real feelings
[–]wallynext 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
in the beginning sure, but if you set up a date and she ghosts you, yeah she does owe you a response, I feel like this whole "people don't owe you shit" is being taken to the extreme and it's the source of bad communication and ghosting culture today, people owe common courtesy to each other
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