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Ashamed-Height1106 · 2021-07-30T11:36:06+00:00

It's called ghosting. Welcome to being a man on tinder. Any given female is likely talking to and involved with someone at any given time, or they lose interest, or someone else of more interest hits them up. Who knows. You can try reaching out in the future but don't invest too much energy or emotion on anyone you talk to on there until you meet them. Also, alot of girls on tinder might be talking to a few guys but once she finds someone she's interested in, will ghost the others. I'd try to stay positive and move on for now, leave the ball in her court. If she doesn't reply in a few days feel free to shoot her another message but don't take it personally. It's not you, it's whatever that girl has going on.

pitterpatter812 · 2021-07-30T11:22:54+00:00

Maybe she started talking to someone else she felt a stronger connection with it even went on a date and felt a spark, so she wants to pursue THAT and not you. Now of course she should have told you something (hey I’m busy, I’m not interested, etc) and not just ghosted you but … that’s probably what happened.

iAM_A_NiceGuy · 2021-07-30T13:43:34+00:00

I guess she kind of needed a texting buddy at that moment, and when you asked her out she couldn’t turn it down, I know it sucks but count your blessings. It’s a bullet doged, even if things went well with her. These kind of people refuse to communicate when something goes down in the relationship. Sorry for you man keep trying.

_0neTwo_ · 2021-07-30T12:30:25+00:00

Doesn't matter why, refocus your energy and keep moving forward. You can try reaching out one last time in a few weeks but consider her a lost cause.

dudeab1des · 2021-07-30T17:17:13+00:00

(sh)It happens 🤷‍♂️

2021-07-30T22:53:08+00:00

You're way too enthusiastic and eager over font & pixels. Nothing is real until after you meet. She could have been a catfish, married with kids, etc for all you know. Next time, talk to several different women so you're not getting hung up on one who may or may not even be into you.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-31T00:58:08+00:00

Mistake #1 - over texting - you think the conversation is really great and she's really into you - when in reality you're putting yourself directly into the friend zone.

Mistake #1 - getting her social media - only just get the phone number - social media will only hurt you - not help you.

She was never serious about meeting you - she used you for attention and validation.

Next time - get the number - 3-5 texts - ask her out.

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