So I’ve been lurking for a while and wanted to submit my first post regarding my experience with the dating pool in NYC and what has worked for me.

I’ve been on a roll pretty much for the last 2 months and have hooked up with several ladies every week. I met 3 new girls in the last 4 days and I was able to seal the deal with each of them every night.

What has worked me. Once you set a date with a girl, don’t text her anymore. Keeps things fun and casual when you text her but don’t try to share too much in terms of hobbies, job and aspirations. Keep that for the date! Girls love mysterious guys.

Pick a place where you can chat and have a few drinks if you both like to drink of course. Dinner and wine/cocktails has worked for me every single time. And most importantly, pick a restaurant that’s either close to your or your dates apartment. I try to pick a restaurant that’s like 5-10 min walking distance from my apartment just in case we went to extend the party at my place which usually happens.

Now this is very obvious, but try to be an interesting person lol I don’t consider myself a good looking guy but I consider myself funny and interesting. I travel a lot and stay in really good shape. I have a really good job/education and have my own apartment where I live on my own. I always try to keep date very fun and just talk about random stuff that comes to mind. Girls love confidence (surprise!) and they love guys who have their shit together.

Now this is key! I never really bring anything sexual to the conversation unless my date does it first! Once she does, it’s game on. I never go into the date with the expectation to get laid honestly. I just try to have fun time and never really force anything that my date doesn’t want to do. Woman will always test you! But you have to remain centered.

A good example would be, I went out with the most beautiful girl last week. Smart, funny and just stunning. What I consider a 10/10 in NYC. We got some drinks and we had a blast together. I asked her if she wanted to go back to my place to smoke weed (she said she was a big fan) and she politely declined but told me that maybe next time we can do it. I remained cool and said our goodbyes. We didn’t even kiss but there was definitely a lot of chemistry there. She texted me the following day to tell me that she had a lot of fun and that she would like to see me again. So I did what always works for me. Set a date for the following week and didn’t contact her unless she did. We went out for dinner and cocktails last night. She was very physical and flirty this time around. Once dinner was over, I asked her if we should go smoke to my apartment and she gladly accepted this time. We went back my place and she rocked my world in every sense possible. She is probably the most sensual woman I have been with. I still couldn’t believe I got with her when I woke up this morning. And she was so into me that she told me she wants to see me again. So I set a date for next week :) you see the pattern here?

To summarize, I would say that the biggest game changer here has been my ability to just remain centered and keep things fun whenever I meet someone new. I never really expect anything in return because I don’t think that’s the right mindset to have. If you want to learn more about this, I have been listening to Coach Corey Wayne for years in YouTube and his channel is pretty much what I base a lot of my dating skills on. Highly recommend it if you are trying to learn more about how to be a 3% man.

Hope this helps gents! And stay safe!