I’m finally starting to become more physical

MisterPhamtastic · 2019-12-31T07:21:40+00:00

My man gonna go from "Where's my hug" to "That baby don't look like me bitch"

CharacterNote · 2019-12-31T10:05:04+00:00

Wait. This is a 'friend'. You're trying to escape the friendzone, I take it?

Auroraquino · 2019-12-31T08:11:52+00:00

Thats cool bro BUT if you are their friends why would you touch their waist and their hands like that. Most girls that I know (myself included) just want to be treated by their guy friends like a friend and not in a different way because they are a girl. I just hate when dudes do that to me just because I’m a female, they hug me in a different way that they would hug their friends, they touch my hair... I just want to be and feel like I’m your “bro”. One of the reasons why I’m best friends with this dude is because he does treat me like a bro. We talk about girls he likes, video games, football and when it comes to physical interaction he hugs me just like he would hug his males friends. It makes me very happy to know that for once, a dude isn’t looking at me like i was a sexual object or something to win.

I don’t know your friend but if you want to keep your female friends close keep that in mind.

EDIT: a nice dude was confused by my comment so I had to read it again and instead of typing best fiend I wrote bf. Lmao sorry.

AStrangeBaguette · 2019-12-31T09:49:16+00:00

If they're only your friends that's super weird. I had a few socially awkward friends that tried to initiate physical touch exclusively with girls and I always found it creepy, and so did my other girl friends. You really shouldn't touch their waist if you're not in a relationship.

Caligo_Destroyer · 2019-12-31T09:06:34+00:00

great to see your progress bro. keep at that new years resolution, read stuff about it and make your own experience - you'll become great at this :D

holybovinebatman · 2019-12-31T17:18:30+00:00

This isn't exactly a "seduction" tip, but don't be reserved from exchanging physical touch with other men as well. Obviously don't embarrass yourself or anyone else but my point is that if you make encourage yourself to give hugs to male friends/family you'll increase your exposure/comfort to touch in general. And females will appreciate it more if they notice you're comfortable around anyone.

Jabaggs · 2019-12-31T06:11:14+00:00

Next time you see her and you are sitting down signal her to sit on your lap

papamidnight45 · 2019-12-31T15:58:29+00:00

Don't downplay your accomplishments. Its positive progress. Good job and keep it up

papamidnight45 · 2019-12-31T16:16:33+00:00

Your welcome. Keep us updated on your progress. You may become an inspiration for someone dealing with the same issues you are. Happy new years

0404S0X · 2019-12-31T19:08:12+00:00

this is so fucking weird lmfao

she’s your friend? and she has a boyfriend? bruh

jessekene · 2019-12-31T14:55:15+00:00

I was in the same situation as you earlier this year and I am 18M too. I also improved earlier this year.

Proud of you bro! Keep going, the future is bright!

biting_ankles · 2020-01-01T00:03:00+00:00

Ignore the haters king; you're gonna make it

samsly142 · 2020-01-01T16:17:42+00:00

good shit boi :)) good luck in future

SeriousBoy2591 · 2019-12-31T13:03:36+00:00

Bookmark

ddredden · 2019-12-31T18:06:55+00:00

You're right, this is light stuff, but FINALLY - there might be an actual man (you're getting there, you should message me) in this subreddit.

ariesv123 · 2019-12-31T21:29:59+00:00

okay but the gentle pulling in by the waist thing is so subtle but I usually find that kind if touch to be hot, good job dude!

john18809 · 2019-12-31T06:07:44+00:00

Cool story chad. No need to be braggadocios though. If only you knew what it is like to have no physical contact outside of family members.

Title	I’m finally starting to become more physical
Author	throwaway487921
Upvotes	335
Comments	102
Date	December 31, 2019 5:45 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ehyo7l/im_finally_starting_to_become_more_physical/
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