Tips on having a less platonic vibe?

throwthestrawberry · 2019-12-25T23:44:59+00:00

"I'm going to keep things casual with her if this goes somewhere since we go to different colleges"

Stop thinking so far ahead. You're already projecting a possible future and that can only add to the pressure of the moment. Just enjoy what is in front of you and be open to things but don't concern yourself with the future whatsoever: it doesn't exist. Especially when it comes to girls.

"I don't want to do anything way too risky/off-character right now, nor am I trying to get laid right at this moment"

This attitude is literally the exact opposite of you saying you want to be less platonic. So you do want to hook up with her or not? You deciding you DO want to be risky/dangerous/adventurous and you deciding that you DO want to get laid will help tremendously in increasing your chances at the almighty cat.

When you pick her up, tell her she looks so different now. When she giggles and say what do you mean? Be like nothing, and smile. Then change the subject and talk about how excited you are to get some food because you're so hungry or w/e

While you guys are having lunch, just keep lightly flirting with her, find excuses to physically touch her, etc. Show her you're interested in her sexually, but don't NEED to sleep with her. Because you're just sexual in general and can sleep with any girl. Which you can btw, whether or not you believe it is up to you.

When you're hanging out in the mall, hold her hand. If she doesn't pull away, you're golden.

Before the date ends, bring up the "you look different" thing again. She will have probably brought it up multiple times by now if she's interested, and hopefully you laugh it off and never answer her each time. But this time, tell her how hot she's looked all day. If she doesn't seem uncomfortable, go for a kiss.

Drygord · 2019-12-25T23:28:08+00:00

Vibe itself? Definitely take up some form of fighting art. You will emanate a “don’t fuck with me” air which signals to men not to mess with you and signals to women that you are a sexual threat.

throwaway487921 · 2019-12-26T04:19:15+00:00

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Hubblenobbin · 2019-12-26T04:44:48+00:00

Intense eye contact. Eye fuck this chick and hold eye contact until she breaks it.

Seriously, it’s the best newbie fix there is, because a lot of other good behaviors fall out of it. It’s like in golf if you tell someone to look at the ball, or have a loose grip. If they focus on only those two swing thoughts, they’ll do better than if they’re thinking about nothing, and LOADS better than if they have a ton of tips in their head.

That’s why I’m not going to give you a kino escalation ladder, or routines, or state dynamics, or theory on reactivity/congruence/premise/qualification, or frame control. All that shit is powerful, but you need to make a bunch of mistakes to calibrate them and integrate them into your personality.

Use intense eye contact, and otherwise just be yourself. These guys are giving you tons to think about. That's great if you're going to go try each piece on 20+ girls and sort out what works and doesn't, but it's terrible for game-day. You obviously want to sleep with this girl, so just do what comes naturally. Will you make a ton of mistakes? Yeah, but she’ll forgive them or not notice because she likes you. So don’t worry about it and enjoy yourself.

gsaegsegesa · 2019-12-26T15:53:04+00:00

Qualify the girl (Simple Todd exercise is to pick 5 non-physical traits you want to find in a girl and see if the girl you're talking to has those traits.)
Vocal tonality (neutral or breaking rapport), body language (active disinterest) and eye contact
Be relaxed and focus on not putting pressure on the girl.

GenderEnlightenment · 2019-12-26T05:59:34+00:00

Express sexual desire — directly, indirectly, with your facial expressions ...

Treat a girl like she's "just a friend" and she probably will be — unless she secretly likes you, in which case treating her like "just a friend" will drive her crazy (in a good way).

Title	Tips on having a less platonic vibe?
Author	throwaway487921
Upvotes	39
Comments	18
Date	December 25, 2019 10:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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