General Date Setup and Execution Guide for Newbies

vorter · 2014-10-19T22:24:43+00:00

Thanks, damn good read

hklehman · 2014-10-19T22:44:40+00:00

So much info dropped! Can believe this is getting buried! Thanks for the writeup!

jdub129 · 2014-10-19T23:07:49+00:00

I have issues with getting out of interview mode and building a rapport. Any tips for this?

Awston · 2014-10-20T02:05:04+00:00

This is a great guide.

What if I don't want to escalate to sex on the first date BUT i want to keep her interested enough that she'll definitely have sex on the second?

Example: I'm meeting a girl from tinder this week on my lunch break during work. I have no time to escalate and bang her.

phillipsap · 2014-10-19T23:19:55+00:00

Never underestimate the power-pose in all situations in life; dating, your work, excelling at your hobbies and interests...that shits infectious. There's a great TED talk on it on UK Netflix

TheHolyFonz · 2014-10-20T03:29:13+00:00

Quality post. Thanks man people like you build this community

WaitIMessedUp · 2014-10-20T18:47:02+00:00

This seems like a seriously stupid question, but what day of the week should I take girls out on? This has happened to me quite a few times in the past: Meet a girl Saturday, set date for next Friday, they move up the date to some random day like on Wednesday, and then nothing comes of it. That said, a lot of it is because I make zero attempt at escalation, but I'm wondering what the heck I'm supposed to do about them moving up the day.

goats_walking · 2014-10-20T04:43:27+00:00

So who pays for the coffee/drinks. I feel I should be the one to do it but I've had girls who hate it when I do. So now there's an awkward moment before anything is payed for.

Octopictogram · 2014-10-20T05:11:43+00:00

Very informative post! I'm horrid at all this, hopefully this will be of help to my Ventures.

HighWolverine · 2014-10-20T13:27:05+00:00

What about bringing a car on a date..?

vgsgpz · 2014-10-20T00:50:07+00:00

why does the man have to pay? i think if she pays it will show you treat women like equals.

capnblueballs · 2014-10-20T04:10:56+00:00

Exactly what I needed, I've got a date coming up tomorrow night. Thanks man!

ASS__TITTIES · 2014-10-20T17:13:33+00:00

Excellent post

_MissingNo_ · 2014-10-20T23:07:08+00:00

This all seems so good in theory. Then I get on the dates and it just seems ... impractical. I'm in college and I can get a good conversation going with a girl at a coffee shop and then get her maybe to come to a party another time because she liked me and then we get drunk and hook up that way, then continue to hang out. But if I'm walking with a girl sober and it's the first date I know they're going to be freaked out by the touching, by me stopping to kiss them, by even the prospect of moving from place to place.

Also, there's a table between you at a coffee shop as much as there is at lunch. So what's wrong with lunch?

AwwwwYeeeee · 2014-11-07T11:14:52+00:00

Love this write up...getting me pumped for my date tomorrow

KoreanBoy1 · 2014-10-20T01:57:06+00:00

Spot on. This is aldo exactly how I go about.

glitchSystemErr · 2014-10-21T15:15:45+00:00

Thank you so much for this.. I have trouble with F-closing and feel this will help alot. Thanks again!:-)

Title	General Date Setup and Execution Guide for Newbies
Author	demoneyes905
Upvotes	375
Comments	36
Date	October 19, 2014 7:57 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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