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[–]daygamer69 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Do what ever the fuck you wanna doooooooo
[–]oh_hawt_damn 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
BUSTIN ALL KOOOOINNDDDSS OF NUUUTTZ
[–]childishgames 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Aight, well my gut is telling me to go for it cause idgaf if I get rejected again, even if it makes me look weird.
I'm starting to think that maybe I'm not pushing through resistance enough. Like, maybe I could have gotten her number the first time if I tried harder. I'm kinda replaying past rejections in my head and wondering if I gave up too easily. I think maybe this has been a weak point in my game recently... but I'm just running out of ideas and asking the PUA community for advice rather than just doing what naturally comes to me.
[–]daygamer69 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In theory it's a bad idea. But who gives a fuck, it's just one girl. If you're really so stressed about not getting any closure then go reapproach her and try again. Just try not to make a habit of it.
[–]Djpokerskills 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
50 NOs and a yes is still a yes.
[–]Peckerdick 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I want you to be my motivational speaker.
[–]lasvegasfun 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
After they no twice then you have to move on or you are becoming needy. Some girls honestly just do need some warming up to. Give it one more try just be honest tell her that you really liked her and thought you would give it one more try or you would regret it later. If she says no this time then you have to move on or you can become a stalker/creepy.
[–]Hularula 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's working customer service, it's literally her job to be nice to you. If she's rejected you twice get over it/yourself.
[–]Turlast 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably not. There's a fine line between a lack of persistence and beating a dead horse. She could possibly be open to the idea, but she's also just as likely to reject you again.
If you don't really care about the outcome, then it's not really an issue if you try again. At least you'll know for sure how she felt about you.
Just ask her out on a date next time you see her and see how she responds. She'll either decline the opportunity or accept it. Don't waste much more time on this.
[–]PheerlessKnight 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have a social context like a date or coffee when you ask for a number cause just a number is useless or say give me your number and we'll work out a date to hang out.
[–]KaneRising 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The essence of charm is persistence without neediness. And a great, mischievous smile. But if you're thinking about how to "get" her...then your persistence will come off as creepy. Let go of any expectations of outcome.
[–]greatestaccounteva 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. A lot of rejections are not a permanent thing. TO know wether or not it is takes some experience... so experiment with a little persistence.
This is especially true in clubs.
[–]MGHOW_ATL 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Didn't give you her number
She set a frame to get you to give her your number without reciprocating
"she did not ever contact me"
Seems pretty clear to me
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