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[–]CumMilkshake 18 points19 points20 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm so glad that lot of this sub is starting to realize this and be a lot more concise about their advice. Really makes up for the shitposts. Being natural and expressive is the most important part of game IMO.
[–]snowehhh 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've met enough girls who liked the chase (play the guessing game) and the mystery. Though, I do agree you have to be clear often enough for her not to lose interest.
[–]verticaluzi 6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
How do I show a girl I want to have sex with her through conversation?
Sorry if this is a bad question, but I can hold conversations fine, but I cant turn them sexual without breaking the natural flow i.e I cant go from a conversation about the weather to a sexual territory.
[–]HelicopterSack 4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Escalation ladder.
Also eye contact. Show her that you want to kiss her (triangular gaze)
Get the conversation to a sexular level.
After kissing and making out go, for the finish ;)
[–]IM_STEVE_STIFLER 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Just banter with her. Have you ever seen Bo Burnham or a comedian like him? He often uses sexual puns and of the like. Always have a point too, say you want to take her on a date. Be clear with what you want, sexual inuendos work well too. Furthermore, use kino such as touching and stuff. If she seems to respond well to you touching, then go for it. It really depends on the situation, not a lot of girls want to have sex if you approach them during the day i.e. in a park or public place. It's easier in a bar or club.
[–]King_Awkward_IV[🍰] 5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"Be like a professional comedian" is tough advice for many regular guys.
I also struggle with the transition from "Yeah, The Hulk is Mark Ruffalo's greatest role ever!" to "So..., you wanna go fuck our brains out?".
I think your advice is "talk about sex a lot", but that feels really weird. It's not something I talk about otherwise.
[–]ZephyrBluu 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think double entendres are better than straight up innuendos for sexualising.
IMO, sounds like you should make it more personal and related to her rather than just common interests. Her passions/goals/views something like that, because then you can create an emotional connection.
I'm also a big believer in having a sexual vibe about you. The way you're talking and looking at a girl. People say it on here a lot that it doesn't matter what you say, IMO this is true. Eye contact, tonality and touch are your best friends.
[–]IM_STEVE_STIFLER 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
l don't mean you have to be like a professional comedian but i do believe everyone can be a little witty and have a couple one liners in their repertoire. Have a fucking sense of humor. Holy fuck. Not that hard unless you have a stick up your ass then there's nothing i can do about that.
[–]Big_TX 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
all these people with a stuck up their ass are so wound up that they clench and clench and try to snap the stick, but that's imposible and they get more stuff, and what they need to do is relax, and let the stick slide out
~Paraphrase RSDTyler
[–]King_Awkward_IV[🍰] -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't seem very seductive.
[–]newtothelyte 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you are climbing up stairs, climb behind her and casually say "I'm definitely staring at your butt"
A move I like to do is comment (not compliment) on their top. Something about the fabric or color or whatever. As you do it, grab their sleeve and just kinda pinch it and lift it up. It's great quick kino
Eye contact is key. Stare at her eyes and lips
Can you give an example of a comment that is not a complement? I can't see the difference
[–]bongfucker182 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try giving a sexual vibe to EVERYTHING, when she gets comfortable being sexual with you, you'll both know when the time comes and it gets hot and sexy it won't be "something that just comes up" you'll both be comfortable with that one touch that's a bit frisky, or that one look that's got a bit of "playful" sight. Now in terms of making something sexual, it shouldn't be too hard. As long as you establish that you're both comfortable being sexually open when something sexual comes up you guys can turn it in to a flirty joke! Although I personally don't like to say "just kidding" whenever I say something because it can seem like you're running away, I always like to think that there's a bit of truth behind every "just kidding" ;)
[–]chevychase0904 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lets say you're talking to this girl and conversation is normal. How do you escalate it to a point where you want to make it clear you want to hang out with her to have sex with her and not like boyfriend girlfriend stuff?
[–]IM_STEVE_STIFLER 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol she'll give you signs. Like the dude said up there. Use escalation. If you are feelin it, go for it. Say hey wanna come back to my place or find an excuse to go to her place or yours.
[+]balr -10 points-9 points-8 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you do that, you get treated as a molester, a creep, a weirdo, a macho, a social paria.
Very bad advice. Or at least, badly worded.
[–]IM_STEVE_STIFLER 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol it's all about positive thinking. If you think about being a creep or it being awkward it won't be natural and girls can pickup on this. Just be yourself and be somewhat confident and in the natural flow. I believe it to be good advice.
[–]balr -4 points-3 points-2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was just referring to how many girls became brainwashed femenazis lately.
[–]IM_STEVE_STIFLER 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why? Just becuase you want to talk with a girl? Unless they are a lesbian, girls i know love to be hit on. Keep doin you bud.
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