I just realized that my entire outlook on women and dating was wayyy out of touch.

E3Lman · 2019-08-05T15:38:58+00:00

Book of Pook is 10/10! So much fun to read so most of the principles stick in your mind when you are in the moment and need to think on your feet...

smoothmax · 2019-08-05T17:35:26+00:00

I can't stand the prose style. Like "Winnie the Pooh Learns Pickup" by the author of Jonathan Livingston Seagull.

Does anyone want to rewrite it in normal English?

Janamejay · 2019-08-05T17:51:44+00:00

My advice: Don't wait for college to reopen. Just go to any place with a lot of people and talk to girls.

20Xti6 · 2019-08-05T14:09:14+00:00

I'm reading that book currently as well.

Let me know how applying it works out for you.

Ophoshea · 2019-08-05T18:41:45+00:00

i need to check this out.. i need to improve my inner game as well.

MrMemper · 2019-08-05T23:39:58+00:00

Fuck yeah man

Atreyu27 · 2019-08-05T22:12:14+00:00

Where do I find this book

mph99999 · 2019-08-06T11:53:51+00:00

You should stop reading books about seduction, no one can teach you how to be seductive, also remember that people want to make money and to make money you can't be real 100% as people want hope, so a lot of things written in seduction books are bullshit.

Also everyone is different, there are different kind of personalities, even thought processes vary between people.
If you want to improve your seductive abilities you should work on yourself, something tangible, like going to the gym, losing fat, tanning, making more money, or taking better photos if you use dating sites.

You should really stop overanalyzing things that may not even exist, women are just like men, the only big difference is that demand for women is superior to the demand for men, why do you think that there are not big seductive communities for women? Because men are the proactive gender? Or because they don't need seduction.
Women are selfish, men are selfish, women have the upper hand in the dating game.

The seduction community is overly optimistic, many things are outside our control no matter how much we wish for it, you have to take reality for whatever it is and adapt, neither being too pessimistic nor too optimistic, many times seduction is just a number game, you try and find the right girl at the right time in the right place, she may like you, or is bored and wants company, or is ready for dating and you are the first person available to her or whatever.
Dating is a market, supply, demand, chances.

Do you know how many people that are intelligent, funny,interesting are out there? Almost everyone has something interesting to say, do you think that when you get a girl is because you made her laught 2 times or because you "kinoed" (aka touching her hand or shoulder). Many times people don't even get a chance to be interesting because the girl being on her pedestal already decided that you are not right for her maybe because at the restaurant you used the fork incorrectly, or because you have a weird tiny mole on your neck.

The seductive mindset is toxic for men in the long term, you keep telling yourself that you are the "prize" but if you really were the prize the girl would come to you in the first place and not you to her, or give you big big signals that she wants you to approach her. Being in the seductive community, reading books, it may feel that you are "improving" yourself, but in reality you are just giving too much attention to a normal part of everyone's life and inflating the price of pussy even more.

Understand that most of the seductive qualities are innate(having the right looks, yes go to the gym) or don't have anything to do with seduction directly(aka having money or having status) and the rest of the qualities have a very minor impact and it's mostly how much you play the field and not how, of course if you suffer from autism and don't understand how to behave normally like many seducers out there putting videos on youtube creeping girls out you should really not take advice from weird people on the internet.

pyr0566 · 2019-08-05T18:54:00+00:00

Do you guys prefer physical books or audiobooks for this?

XxPgMkIlLeR123xX · 2019-08-06T00:02:43+00:00

I just got it and will start read it, how do you compare it to the Mystery Method?

_Marty07 · 2019-08-06T13:19:51+00:00

The book of pook is an amazing book. It was the first book I finished reading on my spare time. This book essentially changed my life and outlook on women. Would definitely recommend it!

Vinc3ro · 2019-08-05T16:21:04+00:00

I guess I’ll start reading it. Does it give advice or just a different outlook on women?

Title	I just realized that my entire outlook on women and dating was wayyy out of touch.
Author	0-1_lal
Upvotes	120
Comments	33
Date	August 5, 2019 1:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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