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[–]a30centsolution 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Touch it.
[–]rollertoaster26 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
What if they are not very affectionate? Get overwhelmed by being too close
[–]a30centsolution 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Touch it. That's the only correct answer. It may not lead anywhere, but that's 100% your best option to open that door.
[–]rollertoaster26 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Idk I tried but I also touch him a lot so I feel it doesn’t have the same effect anymore
[–]TruthfulDL 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Scared or just not very affectionate? I can give pointed if you think hes just timid. But yeah, touching it is pretty sure fire
[–]rollertoaster26 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think both. I’d like to be able to do something that will make him take initiative
[–]TruthfulDL 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sometimes that isnt possible. The thing that might break him down is start hugging the shit out of him. Almost to the point where youre suffocating him. And then break off and make eye contact for a long time and make sure he breaks it first. And during the hug, try to shove your leg into his dick, thats always pretty cool
[–]ScrymFire 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do be careful with the shove.
[–]harmonic- 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It sounds like this guy's personality is such that taking the initiative rarely (if ever) happens
[–]Thereisnopurpose12 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Women seduce with looks. Men seduce with words.
[–]rollertoaster26 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I dress up and look pretty but end up feeling like a fool because he doesn’t notice. Or he does but doesn’t express it or do anything about it
[–]Lurchabilly 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It could 100% be him thinking "im reading into it too much no way are they into me like that" I honestly think the best way is to just open up and ask him/talk to him about it. Like imagine worst case senario, whats worse, a rejection in conversation or a physical rejection?
[–]MakeSail 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How to you seduce with looks?
[–]Low-Jello758 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Flirt. Touch him. Bite your lip on conversation. Wear a nice bra that makes the girls irresistible(trust me, makes a world of difference under clothing too), giggle, angle your body just right in conversation so your hip/leg area is in his crotch area. Sometimes I’ll even drop something so he can get a glimpse of doggy (fully clothed) then I’ll make lots of eye contact. It’s worked every time for me so far. Good luck!
[–]letsgetrandy 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take off your clothes.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eyes? Smiles? Honestly I wish I knew
[–]MrNobody___ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think there is a best way for it.
If you know him for a long time he probably already know if he would be in a relationship or not with you.
Probably going for a kiss.
[–]kashh444 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
first comment on this place.... never have been here before.
i think it depands what outcome u want, a loving relationship or a fling or something like that.
in the end of the day, showing that u want his attention, and enjoy his company will make him like more cuz any person espacialy men want to feel craved.
and omg guys up here, no not all guys will want a girl for "touching it", the vibe and chemstry u get from her first show u if its actully attractive or a mood breaker.
[–]mer-reddit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Talk, time, touch.
You need to be able to talk and connect and transition from public talk to private talk to intimate talk with ease. All three and the appropriate transition between each.
You need to be able to spend time together in short casual bursts, longer social visits with others and over night or on trips. Lots of scene changes with ease.
Last but not least you need to be able to initiate and receive touch from holding hands to hugging then kissing and then more. Each phase needs to be approached with ease and expectations.
Don’t forget consent every step of the way.
Have fun, it is magical.
[–]rafr256 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bite your lip
[–]itsbeck23 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://youtu.be/hUI_n6wuq3E Hope this helps :)
[–]CuriousAboutPleasure 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
how pretty are you
[–]a30centsolution 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Username checks out
[–]Philipparty 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We are more visual and take things more direct. Lots of eye contact, play with your hair,touch your face, touch his hand/shoulder, give compliments, have a good time with him.
[–]Renoxo 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Hi I find you attractive and like spending time with you. Would you be interested in getting coffee or a beer?”
If he says no, then move on. You are looking for long term affection, and that is not something you can create in another person.
By the way applies to dudes going after girls too
[–]Awkward-Chef3913 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at him, smile and wink and look away
[–]d_thstroke 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm a man so I think I can answer this
basically flirty smile and prolonged contact. this can only work if your looks have reached a point for him where you don't disgust him or he can possibly think of you while masturbating without losing an erection
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