Developing instinct

Murfdigidy · 2015-09-12T12:54:08+00:00

No you're not overthinking at all, you see bad boys getting hot girls and you're wondering how to project that persona even though you're not a badboy.

1 aphrodisiac for all women is confidence.... Know it, understand it, live it. You see bad boys project a certain level of confidence which girls find very attractive.... Bad boys have I don't give a fuk what anyone says or thinks, I'm gonna do what I want to do. Girls love this, they find it sexy because someone who doesn't care what people think come off as confident, bold, cool, sexy.

So you need to project this and if you see any good pua they do this in a way that's even sexier than being a badboy. Puas are confident as hell, they'll not afraid and if they are they never let on, they're bold, different, and never ever ever look for reassurance from a women. That's another key, never look for reassurance you should already be sure of yourself. If you project this you'll look sexier than a bad boy. Girls want nice guys, but they want them to be studs, you can project this

Dorman010 · 2015-09-12T14:17:58+00:00

The thing that the so-called 'bay boy' has is confidence - this is attractive in any kind of man, be it a good guy or a bad boy. Instinct is, in my experience, the first thing that comes to mind - then your other filters apply ("Is this right?" "am I being an asshole?" "Is this alpha?". In my experience, your best way of developing that is by going out and approaching more and more. We humans have the wonderful capacity to adapt ourselves based on our experience, use that shit!

Mi5ery · 2015-09-12T14:53:40+00:00

Be present, THRIVE, engage. This will prevent you from overthinking and you'll develop habits that will become a second nature to you.

As other redditors said, the thing you think "bad boys" have is unquestioned confidence, boldness and unashamed sexuality, something anyone can achieve with enough willpower to take actions.

Cypherz_1 · 2015-09-12T11:29:56+00:00

Instinct has changed its meaning for me over time, at first instinct seemed like an almost "6th sense" that some people just have, but the more you practise and continuously improve your game, instinct will be like computer code that as soon as X,Y,Z happen you automatically act upon it without needing to think about it

MrHipCheck · 2015-09-13T04:26:45+00:00

I find my overthinking comes from the perspective of hoping they will choose me. Instead, I now look to choose them instead of hoping they choose me. In practical terms, I see someone I am interested in and say, "Who are they? I want to meet them." vs. I see someone I am interested in and thinking, "What do I say that they will like? How do I look?" etc.

Title	Developing instinct
Author	MojoRyzing
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	September 12, 2015 11:11 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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