Over the past month, I've gotten a handful of numbers. No luck with dating apps or dating sites. Cold approaches in the day work best for me.

I met this girl at a video game collection store. I had just visited to see my friend and there was a cute girl there (surprisingly cute for a gamer) and I opened, swapped names, talked about games, other topics, and then told her I had a great time talking if I could get her number.

The first date I applied Kino and she returned the approaches but at one point she said "I feel like you want to have sex with me" with a smile. I casually said "Is that a good thing?" and she said it was flattering. She had to leave for work in the morning. The next meetup we watched a show and took a nap. We got physical and groping. We're talking sexually. The third date I invite her over for dinner and a movie. We're on the couch and we're grinding. I got boobage but she wouldn't let me finger her. I could only touch her over her panties. She would constantly go for the moment and then fall back. I got this feeling she didn't know how to escalate. It was a natural avoidance (she came by it honestly) but she wouldn't let me finger her. After the date she asked if I was dissapointed. I said "meh", we chatted, made out, and she left.

Over text she said she had a great time and dinner was awesome. I asked if she had ever been fingered cause I was getting this vibe. She's a virgin. I didn't want to lead this chick on so I said I had needs and I liked her. She liked me too but she wants to wait until marriage due to her beliefs. I'm not religious but even religious people fuck.

She kept saying sorry over and over. I said we wouldn't work out because I'd be sexually frustrated in any kind of relationship we would have long term, short term, or no labels. Her texts were sad (trailing ... and sorrys and she said she'll cheer up in time). She was a lot of fun but I know what I need and she was fixed in her decision.

Did I make the right call without pressuring her or guilt-tripping her? I want to provide guilt-free sex with women.