This may sound very random but I watched my dress up darling and in the anime the character Marin Kitagawa hate when guys are very full of themselves and judge other and hit on her when approached like in the first episode of the first season where her friend Nowa tell to other girls that the other day a guy approached her both and wanted to chat with kitagawa but he start mocking her and later is said that guys approach her and try to hit on her and she's just respond very dry and blaze saying "who the hell are you?"... And that made me think that as a guy who is very direct, if I try to approach a girl like her I had to do an indirect approach... And being indirect has is benefits like it looks more natural and let her be more comfortable and less defensive to engage... so my question is... If I find some girl like kitagawa and I try an indirect approach... What could I say to approach her and then transition to get to know her and man-to-women and all that?