For example, people say to begin kino with something like a touch on the shoulder when you make her laugh, or a high five when you agree on something or whatever.

This is all fine, but it's just platonic touch. The kind of touch you could do with a friend without it being weird...even a male friend!

But what about when you want to advancecx past that and 'show your intentions', and so want to touch her leg or brush her forearm or whatever?

Sometimes i'll do the platonic touches which go down fine, but when I try for something more sexual, the girl might move away, or ask me what i'm doing, or move my hand etc.

Not sure if i'm doing something 'wrong' (maybe touching at a point when i've NOT just made her laugh or something? Is that always a 'rule'?), or whether every single girl I approach is simply not sexually interested in me, and so rejects kino so as not to give me the wrong impression

I look in the mirror and I don't see a handsome person, but I also don't think my face is THAT ugly! I'd say i'm a 5. But I legit wonder if I have some sort of 'reverse body dismorphia' where by i'm actually a lot uglier than I think I am! haha