I see tons of great advice on here, but I feel that there are many more variables that I need to take into consideration when approaching different women of races and culture. I am 50/50 black,white and from what I am told, pretty good looking, well spoken and confident. I'm in good shape, dress well and groomed. So when I am out at night, I can't say one word to a girl or even make eye contact without this assumption that I am some kind of player. This is usually with white or Hispanic girls. Most of the time, I am just trying to make conversation and be nice, but it never fails. I have no problem getting girls but it's always the ones that are aggressive towards me. If I start the conversation, I get an instant force field. The reason I am bringing race into this is because my white guy friends I hangout with are way more aggressive than I am and are up to way more player like activities than I am but they never get this instant player label. One of my friends could run through an entire group of girls, yet I would still get labeled the player of the bunch yet never touched one. My Day game is solid and this never happens, only when I am out at night. I am just curious if anyone thoughts on getting around it.

TL;DR

When out at night, I get labeled a player without saying a word, assuming because of my appearance. Being even slightly aggressive (politely) doesn't work for me. Any advice?